I always try to make it a point to compliment her in some form or fashion.
That doesn't mean that I make her turn around so I can pinpoint every little detail, but I think a small acknowledgement goes a long way. For instance...when she gives me a hug and a kiss I will tell her how great she smells. I also think that the way you say it, says a lot as well.
There have also been a few times where I was completely surprised when she opened the door and I saw her for the first time. We look at pictures and we have a pretty good idea of what a lady looks like as long as the pics are accurate...but when she opens the door and she is
so much better in person, it is surprising.
I was left speechless one time standing at the door. She was so beautiful that I didn't know what to say. She knew I was pleasantly surprised...and I could see in her face that she appreciated that. I didn't have to say a word...
I'm sure the look I had on my face was something along the lines of...
LOL!!