Upcharge for Strap-on

There was a thread in the Dallas, TX forum that talked about the interest in Greek.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=323635

I wanted to give you the entire thread although my question stems from one post seen below:

Let me address the upcharge for Greek.

Especially since it's fairly well known that if you've been around since the P - you basically KNOW that I am a sincere and utter lover of getting my ass fucked.

It's been difficult to find ways to address it at times - but even with rate flucuations - I honestly do NOT want to go through the prep work EACH AND EVERY TIME I see a client just to find out during the session he's not even interested in it.

Maybe it's like a finders fee.

I don't just charge it because I can.

I charge it so you don't get shit on your wrapped up dick, or in your mouth or anywhere on me. I want to sparkle. I want you to be able to eat your fucking dinner off my ass. That takes TIME AND EFFORT. It's not just "take a shit and come fuck my ass till kingdom come."

I'm not a porn star - as much as I might think I am one in my head. I can't have my ass fucked all day, every day either.

So, to summarize:

It keeps the cheap jerks at bay.

It keeps my ass sparkling clean for the both of us. (not that I'd ever have it gross for anyone else - but not everyone else is going appx 6-9 inches up my ass either)

It does in some way help compensate that it's pretty likely that if I have one dick pound my ass in a day, I won't be having any others pound my ass that day. Personally, I am good for one good O via the poop shoot in a 12-24 hr time span. So giving me the extra $50 isn't so much an up-charge - but think of it as a token of appreciation maybe? That YOU get to be the one guy to pop my ass for the day (or in my case the week, since I don't work that much) and typically I'm gonna cum so hard I can hardly even move. Pat yourself on the back and know I'm grateful for the income!

My question is why do some providers charge extra for Strap-on for boys? I've seen providers who are "all-inclusive" and will let me do virtually anything to them, but then charge extra to strap me. It's not the fee that concerns me, I don't understand the logic. The provider doesn't have to prep or anything talked about above. I'm not suggesting it's less work, but isn't it less wear & tear?

I know that trying to understand/discuss pricing in the hobby is pointless, but this one I'm really confused about.

As a provider whom offers strap on play among other kink. I always cum prepared with a suite case full of fun toys. I also ASK if there is any special request...ie lingerie, role playing, toys, ect.....I never up sale anything in my sessions. But I can understand a extra charge if the provider was needing to go out and buy a strap on JUST for that client and that session. Toys are not cheap. But if your going to offer a service then YOU must be ready. willing and able to preform that service..........Have Fun!!!

...But I can understand a extra charge if the provider was needing to go out and buy a strap on JUST for that client and that session. Toys are not cheap. But if your going to offer a service then YOU must be ready. willing and able to preform that service..........Have Fun!!! Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

That I understand. Some providers have told me that I would have to bring my own strap-on. I used to have a vibrating one, but I need to find a new one. Any suggestions?? I do bring my own toys along!

But of course I do..................

This is my favorite dong, now this harness isent leather but workers well.
http://www.sextoyfun.com/Vibro-UR3-V...18?a=sextoyfun

Now this is my favorite harness, and with the extra attachments can up the fun for the wearer.
http://www.sextoyfun.com/Juli-Ashton...06?a=sextoyfun


Both are vac u locks so many different dongs can be used...........Have Fun!

But of course I do..................

This is my favorite dong, now this harness isent leather but workers well.
http://www.sextoyfun.com/Vibro-UR3-V...18?a=sextoyfun

Now this is my favorite harness, and with the extra attachments can up the fun for the wearer.
http://www.sextoyfun.com/Juli-Ashton...06?a=sextoyfun


Both are vac u locks so many different dongs can be used...........Have Fun! Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

Wowww!!!!! Very interesting subject now curious minds want to know what is a FAIR PRICE for a STRAP-ON session such ass bringing your own toy and maybe the PROVIDER keeping it OR just arriving and letting the PROVIDER enjoy herself with her own SPECIAL TOY.

I never charge extra for anything.....I enjoy what i do,so it is a total pleasure to do what I do!

I have several sizes & styles to choose from.I would never ask the guy to bring his own...unless he had a specific request.

AS me and Dallas have both stated, we never charge extra for ANY of our kinky play. That is ALL part of our session. We love the kink and love sharing and letting others experience it. Toys are not cheap and anyone is more then welcome to bring toys as gifts, WE LOVE IT!! But as we both have very large and HOT toy suite cases that travel, Im sure we can find something fun to play with in there.............Life is to short not to have fun! YUM!

I can understand an upcharge if the provider doesn't have what you specifically request. Not having the toys on deck is one of the reasons I dont offer it. The one time I did get a request for strap on play, the guy canceled on me so I was happy I hasn't give it a bought the hardware yet.

It's funny how one's mind can sometimes work. While reading this thread I started imagining meeting one of the ladies that posted above at someplace like a Starbucks. She's be in a pair of jeans and a top that showed off juuuussstttt enough of her breasts to make me want to see more. As we talk, she deftly guides my hand underneath the table and places it over the massive bulge inside her 501's. She leand over and whispers in my ear something like "I'm gonna bury this in your ass" while squeezing my hardon. We leave shortly thereafter to tale care of one aother's desires.

lol

It's funny how one's mind can sometimes work. While reading this thread I started imagining meeting one of the ladies that posted above at someplace like a Starbucks. She's be in a pair of jeans and a top that showed off juuuussstttt enough of her breasts to make me want to see more. As we talk, she deftly guides my hand underneath the table and places it over the massive bulge inside her 501's. She leand over and whispers in my ear something like "I'm gonna bury this in your ass" while squeezing my hardon. We leave shortly thereafter to tale care of one aother's desires. Originally Posted by txcwby6

Man you would be one lucky dude IF you would not have too PAY FOR IT ass there would be just EACH others WILD imagination !!!!!!!

I can understand up charge if she isn't use to playing with ass's and needs to buy a toy..
butt why see a girl that doesn't know what to do once she has the strap on?

AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You would not go to a prostate docter if you were pregnant! lol

I can understand up charge if she isn't use to playing with ass's and needs to buy a toy..
butt why see a girl that doesn't know what to do once she has the strap on? Originally Posted by NurseCarrie

Unfortunately, that's the trial & error part. Provider's can list a whole array of services. You won't know how proficient she is at them until you meet her. And for kinkier services, it's harder to use reviews or ask previous clients.

I also think that some providers want you to BYO because they reserve their strap-on only for woman-to-woman activities.

Unfortunately, that's the trial & error part. Provider's can list a whole array of services. You won't know how proficient she is at them until you meet her. And for kinkier services, it's harder to use reviews or ask previous clients.

I also think that some providers want you to BYO because they reserve their strap-on only for woman-to-woman activities. Originally Posted by papadee

Ahhh Im not sure whats going on up north there. But down south us girls know our toys and we know how to use them on our boys. The chosen few whom have taking the time to learn the skills and the money to invest in their toy stock are easy to find. Our showcase's state our skills, our reviews prove our skills and our post show our passion for taking our boys to the next level. All my toys play safe as do I and our cleaned before and after a session. Do your research and ask questions..........Good Luck!