All women know that really good daty is an art form. It is a lot more involved than just attacking the clit, reciting the alphabet and hoping for the best. But, oddly enough, a good 50% of the providers I have seen approach a bbbj just that way. We just have a bigger clit.
My handle is my passion and I like to think that practice and experience has made me good at my favorite activity. I realize, however that I am probably more liberal than a lot of people here. As such, I completely understand how a provider might be averse to things like tuma or cim. But what about bls? Personally, I feel that bls is an integral part of a bbbj, yet, as I mentioned, a lot of providers apparently don't. And if they do not feel comfortable enough with it to do it; I don't feel comfortable enough to request it..
Is BLS an important part of oral activity with you or not? And if not; why not?