Speak my name...

OK, ladies, was wondering if there is an unwritten rule about saying the client's actual/real first name. Mine is not "Baby" or "Sweetie" or "Studmuffin"...was just thinking about this and trying to remember the last time one of you spoke my first name...and I couldn't remember. You know what it is because when we set up a meeting, I confirm by email my real first name next to my handle. It is a turn-on when the MISH is so good you're yelling "Baby!! Baby!! Deeper!! Oh,yes,yes,yes, Baby!! But for a GFE, would love to hear you scream:
_____! _____! _____! Man, that would sound wonderful.
I don't know; I feel weird asking you to say it.

Probably a habit to prevent accidentally using the wrong name. I'd rather hear "Sweetie" than some other guy's name.

yeah...sometimes I forget your name lol

*shrugs*

Interesting topic.

I've heard a theory that, if the lady says your name (whether it's real or the one you told her to use), it's a sure sign it's a fake "shout out". Not sure I agree with that. Fake "shout out" or not, at least she knows it's me in the room.

I do agree that a generic baby or sweetie is safest from her perspective to avoid use of the wrong name. However, sometimes that can seem forced and insincere.

Maybe she should just give a shout out to a higher deity and stick with "oh gawd" or something similar and avoid the use of personal names completely. It reduces the risk of mistaken names plus I can pretend she thinks I'm really that good.

For me it depends on how much I had to drink that nite. Just Kidding.

The way to avoid getting a guy's name wrong is easy: just call all your clients "john." Works for me.

I had a session a few years ago where the young lady said, as she gave me one final kiss as I walked out the door, "I'll never forget our time together, Bill." Haha.

btw, I saw a HDH the other day that was so full of herself that she screamed her own name when she had an orgasm. Haha.

Use of my name during mish would be nice unless of course it's not really my name! I don't mind baby since I use it myself in the throes. But I never forget who I am with.

I will always use first names when we're together. Here on the boards though is a different story. I would think none of you would want your first names used for privacy reasons.

If privacy doesn't matter to anyone then fine. From this point forward everyone's name will be "John". LOL!

Screaming your own name, now that's narcissism! Sort of like, "I love me some me."

Oh, this may be fitting for our group! LOL

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LEo8poVlQrM

I have the ladys call my alias out quite often. looie!
Whats even worse I may answer to it before my real name now.

I have the ladys call my alias out quite often. looie!
Whats even worse I may answer to it before my real name now. Originally Posted by looiecypher

Ok Rodney, you have my respect, now!

Bill or George! Anything but Sue!

I like being called by my name as well. It's on my P411 account and I usually say my name when I call them or write emails.

"Would you rather me be in bed with you shouting someone else's name or be in bed with someone else shouting your name? Besides you shouldn't listen to what a woman says in the throws of passion." - from Bull Durham