Finding a threesome...

So, my fiance told me she would have a threesome with another girl. However, she told me to find the girl. Is that normal? Wouldn't it be easier if she were to select and ask the girl? We are 38 yrs old, good looking and we'll put together....if I pick it's going to be someone much younger, but that might backfire....anyone else had anything similar? Looking for tips, advice, or any insight. I want this to be a truly awesome, once in a lifetime experience for both of us. We want someone clean and ddf, because we want it to be a bareback experience. We're both clean, ddf, plus I'm fixed...so, yes, I guess I'm kinda advertising, but not looking to hire someone. Would be super cool if I could set this up under her radar and have a girl meet us at a bar, and approach us about a threesome, but totally act like it's a random encounter...maybe I'm living in a fantasy world....but that's what I do...

Have you two been to or thought about trying a swingers cluc first? Also did she say it was okay to get a pro to help out with this? But to answer your question getting her input or help to pick the one will make the experience better on your end and less headache too.

So...swingers clubs aren't just for swinging? Never been...she's never expressed interest about 2 dudes...she never said yes or no to a pro...they're too tatted up and just look the part roo much for her...and she likes the girl-next-door look...I just think she has a phobia about picking....if she were approached by a girl, it would be much easier for her...

Try the 13th floor in Dallas. Also try the Silver Minx in Hutchins. Craigslist also or look on Craigslist for House Parties and go to one of them. My wife and I have had numerous three somes by going to swinger clubs and house parties. One time we met a girl at a local bar and took her home with us. It's not as difficult as you make it out to be. GOOD LUCK

Thanks...I'll give it a shot

To your question it's perfectly normal for her to ask you to find someone( she wants you to be fully satisfied) I personally like to choose the women but to each is on . A threesome can go good or bad depends on the people and if there are any other agendas besides pleasure I say find a hot lady and go for it and just have fun lots of fun hope that helped a little

I dont put my mouth anywhere lol and i flirt with the ladies too its best to go do the club scene doll and with a pro let her pick

agreed....it can go both ways....I picked the girl for me and my girls last 3 way.....was very hot...but I would ask what she likes in a girl and then combine yours and hers likes in your choosing....worked great for me.

Pick a pro you have seen before, and that your old lady wouldn't be threatened by. Don't tell the wife but take her out dancing or to shoot some pool and have the provider meet you there. Get the wife buzzed, then have the provider approach as an unknown and strike up a conversation with the wife. You will have coached the provider on your wife's interests, and have her compliment your wife on her looks and tell her she wants you both. Your wife will feel great like she snagged the treat herself.

Pick a pro you have seen before, and that your old lady wouldn't be threatened by. Don't tell the wife but take her out dancing or to shoot some pool and have the provider meet you there. Get the wife buzzed, then have the provider approach as an unknown and strike up a conversation with the wife. You will have coached the provider on your wife's interests, and have her compliment your wife on her looks and tell her she wants you both. Your wife will feel great like she snagged the treat herself. Originally Posted by DFWhobbyguy

Now this guy ^^^^ is a pro. Could never have suggested anything better if I had though it out for a week.

+1 on a swing club

Definitely find out the type of lady she might like and someone that will not be intimidating to her. Example: if she's late 30s-early 40s, finding a cute bubbly 20 something may blow up in your face. If your fiance is a little heavy, finding a spinner may blow up in your face.....

Also, it is a very good idea to find out what her expectations are in a FMF. Will you be able to play with both ladies, are you allowed to kiss the other lady, and so on.

I played with a married couple, but I was only allowed to play with her the first few times. He couldn't touch me. Around the 3rd visit, I finally got to give him head, but still he couldn't touch or kiss me.

This is her game, and my advice to you is follow her rules or it may blow up in your face.

Edit: if you go with a provider on this, make sure she is respectful of the rules you as a couple have set. She's there to please both of you and to fulfill a fantasy.

If you have never discussed it before, it could be a trap.
Oh look he knows where to get another girl at the drop of a hat. lol

For some reason, many ladies seem to believe that every's guy's secret desire is a threesome.