Tips on Better responses

I have, as of late, been experiencing a halt in response from my PM. Is there any advice on making my profile more appealing to get better responses. I've only been in the hobby about 2 months

I suggest you follow the contact info listed in her profile. We all like different methods. If she says TEXT, then TEXT etc. We like to know that you can read and follow simple instructions. A brief introduction goes along ways. I like first name, age and where you found my number. Some ladies specify they want provider ref info in the initial contact.

Try posting an ISO (for the HOUSTON forum) and ask for a "newbie" friendly provider in your area. Become more active on the local board, participate in conversations. Once you post a few reviews, then you will likely get a better response.

Have Fun and play safe.

If you are sending out a "hey" or "hi" message then don't expect to be taken seriously.

The vast majority of ladies are not looking for pen pals and/or ongoing chat sessions with respect to PMs. Get down to biz $$$$$$.

It's likely less about your profile and more about the message itself.

As Alaine already suggested, be sure you're contacting her via her preferred method. Example: I can take days or even weeks to answer PMs; email is the way to go when contacting me.


Some ladies get freaked out if you mention $ and/or specific service options (especially in a first message) so I'd leave those out.

Keep it simple: include your desired day, time, location, outcall vs incall.

A gentlemanly compliment wouldn't hurt but isn't necessary.

I hope that helps!

Thanks. I appreciate the tips. I will implement all of your advice and hopefully I'll get better responses.


Thanks again.

I requests dates at least a week in advance, most of the time.
If a lady takes more than a couple days to respond, I will have already sent a request to another lady.

Usually, most of them answer within 24 hours max. Some even answer within an hour.
There are a lot of them that work RW jobs and can't answer right away, but usually do by the same evening.

I never send out a request message later than 8 pm and no earlier than 8 am.

Could it be something I'm missing with my profile?

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