Some men, like porn star TTBoy, can maintain an erection after ejaculation, and keep on boning until a second pop. He appears to have virtually no refractory period, but that's very very rare.
The refractory period can be reduced or eliminated completely but using viagra, and having the period leading to the first pop be short.
Most guys who pop too soon and are on viagra can achieve a second erection soon and live to bone so more within an hour, but their hormones, particularly oxytosin, have been depleated, so the second time their libido is down to nothing, which is why it takes them so long to come the second time.
Guys who claim pleasure from coming a second time are experiences pleasure other than normal, hormon-induced libido. Their pleasure is egotistical gratification of some other kind.
Originally Posted by honorable1
Libido
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Main Entry:
li·bi·do
Pronunciation: \lə-ˈbē-(ˌ)dō
also ˈli-bə-ˌdō\
Function:
noun
Inflected Form(s):
plural li·bi·dos
Etymology: New Latin
libidin-, libido, from Latin, desire, lust, from
libēre to please — more at
love
Date: 1909
1 : instinctual psychic energy that in psychoanalytic theory is derived from primitive biological urges (as for sexual pleasure or self-preservation) and that is expressed in conscious activity
2 : sexual drive
Honorable,
I do not require Viagra(yet) but I know my own refractory period does change from day to day. Sometimes a couple minutes(less than ten minutes) to 30 minutes.
you keep using the word libido but from what I have looked up from Freud it is all theory. Can you explain where you come up that a second pop is ego driven?