Soliciting at gentlemen's clubs

Since I won't get any replies if I ask topless dancers if they solicit at the club, I will ask it this way: Do you know anyone you work with that solicits clients where they work? Also, is there a non-offensive way to ask a dancer if she's a provider that doesn't make me sound like I'm a cop? For me, it seems like a good way to get comfortable before commiting to an appointment with someone you haven't met

You might want to do a Search. I imagine there is at least one thread on this in every major market.

first you need to be a regular so the dancers are comfortable with you. and takeout menu at strip clubs is a lot more prevalent than you think. just ask her if she does anything outside the club. some are more sneaky about it and the other girls don't know. but sometimes dropping a bug in one girls ear of what you seek gets around to the ones who are on the takeout menu.

As a dancer, I know plenty of dancers who do. A good way for a dancer to not think you're a cop is to be drinking more than 2 alcoholic beverages. Also... don't be creepy when you ask. Dancers mostly are low key in working from out of clubs and expect to pay way more than you do site girls.

Since I won't get any replies if I ask topless dancers if they solicit at the club, I will ask it this way: Do you know anyone you work with that solicits clients where they work? Also, is there a non-offensive way to ask a dancer if she's a provider that doesn't make me sound like I'm a cop? For me, it seems like a good way to get comfortable before commiting to an appointment with someone you haven't met Originally Posted by Pokey1965

Doesn't matter you haven't met.Sex workers and strippers promoting business in friendly emails,texts and phone calls to hobbyists.PAID fantasies and PAID conversations..

Also it depends on the tier of club that you are trying to score in. Remember women inherently have game and are always trying to assess the situation to leverage it to their advantage. Although it is harder in top of the line and well known establishments, it has and will happen in some bars. Keep this in mind, in some of the seedier more urban type of establishments it is more than likely to happen. Also woman are trying to feel you out and get comfortable with you. After you have passed that test then they might be more inclined to delve into the compensation game because they are constantly aware that they are born with a commodity and in most cases they are just dancing for tips any way. Keep in mind, for some women stripping is a gateway to more real stuff. So in some cases, they might because this game leads into prostitution, escorting and the like. So depending on how needy they might be and how comfortable they would be with you it is certainly a greater chance than not that it could go down.