V-DAY and I dont mean valentines...

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I have always kind of wondered how popular of a holiday Valentines is among those who enjoy the hobby. Does seeing all the lovers out and about make you more likely to seek a provider?? Or maybe all the lovey dovey frilly romance is an overkill and you find yourself sneaking out the back for a good ol sloppy BNG??? haha... Just something that kinda peaked my curiousity this morning.... any feedback??? (This is my first time being available on this particular holiday, Im super excited... should be a lot of fun )

XOXO,
Lexi L'amour
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I would love a great bbbj cimnqns today, but, its pain in the ass the get an appointment with short notice. so I will jerk off to porn and enjoy the rest of today!


on a side note: Valentines day is just like Christmas now, it has lost its true meaning.
Me buying flowers or jewelry or going to dinner should NOT be expected by women or men (if you are gay). I do not see how monetary things equate to love????. How about I simply say.

I love you!
^^^^ what he said
Alyssa XOXO's Avatar
^^^+2.... Love should be shown and said on a daily basis, not just one "designated day". You can't buy love. It's a beautiful day, I'm going to eat crawfish lol

Happy Valentine's Day everyone
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+3 ^^^^
Sounds good to me...
Crawfish that is... Lol
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...on a side note: Valentines day is just like Christmas now, it has lost its true meaning.
Me buying flowers or jewelry or going to dinner should NOT be expected by women or men (if you are gay). I do not see how monetary things equate to love????. How about I simply say.

I love you! Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY
Problem is that men, on average, don't say, "I love you!" near enough. Yes, I know, deeds speaks louder than words (so do your good deed and get out there to the Hallmark shop, at least), and again we have the difference in psychology between male and female in action; women like to be told AND shown, and if they can show it off to other women, so much the better. That's why Friday the florists saw huge business as they delivered to offices and work environments rather than homes. Today it will be the fellows picking up blooms in person.

No, it shouldn't be expected, but just little, inexpensive gestures can mean a lot to your lady today so she'll know that she's appreciated and hasn't been forgotten; a card, a box of candy, a rose, a bottle of wine, a cupcake. We're talking symbolism, not monetary value. Man up and do one romantic thing today, fellows. Gets her juices going.

As far as the Hobby goes, it's a mixed bag. Valentine's makes some horny, angers those who don't like commercialism, depresses other Hobbyists who may be alone and unwilling to purchase "false" affection. However, might bear in mind that the good time and happy mammary, er, memory that you get out of a provider is as much a part of reality as any other experience, so you might as well go for it and have some fun! Would be super nice if you spent an extra $10-$20 to present her with some silly Valentine thing for the appearance of thoughtfulness before you mindlessly bang her brains out.


A lovely gentleman here on ECCIE is taking me to a club tonight. Fancy will rock out in her heels, and then have a cream-filled sweet treat.



HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY FROM FANCY AND THE IRISH CHIHUAHUA REFUGE!

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Would be super nice if you spent an extra $10-$20 to present her with some silly Valentine thing for the appearance of thoughtfulness before you mindlessly bang her brains out.

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
Gents: I'd suggest getting something disposable. She's probably gonna trash it anywayz.

If your special enough to her for her not, you've probably been giving her gifts all year long.

ps: ix ney on the breadmaker
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Gents: I'd suggest getting something disposable. She's probably gonna trash it anywayz.

If your special enough to her for her not, you've probably been giving her gifts all year long.

ps: ix ney on the breadmaker Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

On, Heavens, I still have everything any gent has ever given me unless it was perishable, edible, didn't fit, or I was allergic to it. I have been a very lucky lassie, and I appreciate the "goddess" treatment when someone brings an offering to my Irish shrine. He gets blessed... repeatedly. (I get baptised. )

I am currently on a "Snoopy" kick because one of my wee woofers reminds me of him. Yesterday I just gasped when I opened a box from a favorite fellow containing a sterling silver heart pendant featuring Snoopy hugging Woodstock the bird. Wearing it now as I get ready to go out for a Valentine's lunch.

Btw, it should go both ways; I always give expressions of gratitude to those I entertain on holiday weeks, and try to be considerate with what I choose for my regulars. Yes, has to be something easily explainable if the gent has an SO. Booze is pretty good if the fellow drinks, as he can always say he bought it himself.
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Problem is that men, on average, don't say, "I love you!" near enough. Yes, I know, deeds speaks louder than words (so do your good deed and get out there to the Hallmark shop, at least), and again we have the difference in psychology between male and female in action; women like to be told AND shown, and if they can show it off to other women, so much the better. That's why Friday the florists saw huge business as they delivered to offices and work environments rather than homes. Today it will be the fellows picking up blooms in person.

No, it shouldn't be expected, but just little, inexpensive gestures can mean a lot to your lady today so she'll know that she's appreciated and hasn't been forgotten; a card, a box of candy, a rose, a bottle of wine, a cupcake. We're talking symbolism, not monetary value. Man up and do one romantic thing today, fellows. Gets her juices going.

As far as the Hobby goes, it's a mixed bag. Valentine's makes some horny, angers those who don't like commercialism, depresses other Hobbyists who may be alone and unwilling to purchase "false" affection. However, might bear in mind that the good time and happy mammary, er, memory that you get out of a provider is as much a part of reality as any other experience, so you might as well go for it and have some fun! Would be super nice if you spent an extra $10-$20 to present her with some silly Valentine thing for the appearance of thoughtfulness before you mindlessly bang her brains out.


A lovely gentleman here on ECCIE is taking me to a club tonight. Fancy will rock out in her heels, and then have a cream-filled sweet treat.



HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY FROM FANCY AND THE IRISH CHIHUAHUA REFUGE!

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Better watch out, some may be thincking you are promoting Irish Chihuahua puppy porn ... ijs.
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Better watch out, some may be thincking you are promoting Irish Chihuahua puppy porn ... ijs. Originally Posted by pyramider


I love all creatures, great and small... just in different ways.

No chihuahuas were hurt in the making of this innuendo.
I would love a great bbbj cimnqns today, but, its pain in the ass the get an appointment with short notice. so I will jerk off to porn and enjoy the rest of today!


on a side note: Valentines day is just like Christmas now, it has lost its true meaning.
Me buying flowers or jewelry or going to dinner should NOT be expected by women or men (if you are gay). I do not see how monetary things equate to love????. How about I simply say.

I love you! Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

Depends on who you contact ijs
Gents: I'd suggest getting something disposable. She's probably gonna trash it anywayz.

If your special enough to her for her not, you've probably been giving her gifts all year long.

ps: ix ney on the breadmaker Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

I don't trash my gifts because it was a thoughtful gesture that most asshole's would never think of...
Clarity: my "she" comment was in general.

I think Fancy would keep the gift even if it was a bottle of Scotch.

(she might even drink it)
Hmm. I'd say we generally have more fun enjoying a session than random gifts for Valentine's Day. A great experience is more memorable.

Started trawling around on the ad threads this year and I don't know if it's slow or what, but just seems there is not a lot out there this time around (at least for us).
Its because Valentine's falls on a weekend so therefore its harder for people to get away... But I was busy but not as busy as last year when it was on a weekday..