Many of us here lead a sort of double life.
Our friends, family, business associates and/or significant others may have no idea what’s going on behind closed doors. They may not know there are any doors beyond where fun stuff goes.
So is part of the appeal of the double life the idea that we know something someone special doesn't know about us? Or do we like the casual misdirect, the secret assignation, the cloak and kiss, and the showering of scents? Are secrets just so much fun? Or is it something else?