Is COF demeaning?

Annette Haven had a long and successful career in porn, despite being one of the industry's most notorious cumdodgers. She never took a facial because she thought it would be demeaning. She could get away with it because she's generally recognized as one of the most beautiful American porn stars ever, because working on film made setting up for a COF shot time- and resource-consuming, and because back then she didn't have to compete with a few hundred thousand California teen-agers who didn't share her disdain for the Krispy Kreme look. These days, you can't survive more than a shoot or two if you don't at least turn the other cheek.

Which brings me to the question: Are facials demeaning to the recipient?

My suggestion is that it depends. They can be if the guy is using it as an exercise in domination or control over a partner who's absolutely not interested in accommodating him. But if the woman either really enjoys getting glazed (yeah, right), or she knows that her partner would enjoy doing the glazing and accommodates him because she knows that's what he wants and she wants please him, I think not. The middle ground -- "Okay, you can do it, but let me get my hair out f the way and close my mouth and eyes" -- is borderline to me, but definitely not something I'd be terribly enthusiastic about.

I do enjoy COF the only thing I hate when some of it goes up my nose. I don't mind if it gets in my hair because I can just wash it out. I do not feel as though it is demeaning at least to me. I agree that it all depends on what the girl is in to and maybe even how the whole COF is approached.

If the lady likes it or does not care, its not demeaning. If she objects, then don't do it. Seems very simple.

I dont get into that kind of stuff often, but did have one girl say no because it burned her eyes if it got in them. Was thinking next tiem I will take some of the little swimmer goggles

I think it shows disdain for the woman and I really don't get why a guy would want to do it. But that is just me. If both parties agree and enjoy it then no harm no foul.

It's all in how the individual woman views sex and what her perception of 'demeaning' is. If she views spunk as being 'icky' she will probably feel demeaned by COF. Perception is reality on an individual basis and WALDT.

I'm not one of those. I was recently the happy recipient of a very messy COF/CIM/COH (Cum On Hair) finish, my request. I like the feeling of him spreading it all over my face and mouth, feeding it to me off his cock. I've never felt demeaned, only thoroughly rewarded

There are many fetishes I find abhorent. But WALDT so as long as no one trys to force it on someone, do what you enjoy. But don't feel like you need to tell everyone about it.

I think it shows disdain for the woman and I really don't get why a guy would want to do it. But that is just me. If both parties agree and enjoy it then no harm no foul. Originally Posted by oldmarine

That's for the woman that has a dick ready to pop to decide. If she wants to take it anywhere on her body I think it's hot if she's the one aiming where she wants it.

WALDT. I wasn't really into it until a past girlfriend did it one night during oral. She really liked and got off on CIM, COF, and COB. Damn, I miss her! She created a monster with all the doors she opened to me. Trust me, there are some ladies, even here, that really, really like this kind of thing.

Like many other things demeaning is in the intent, not the act.

I think like the rest of these opinion threads, it is subjective topic and youre going to hear 30 milion different answers.

I for one think it can be, if the person doesnt really want to.

I think it shows disdain for the woman and I really don't get why a guy would want to do it. But that is just me. If both parties agree and enjoy it then no harm no foul. Originally Posted by oldmarine

Exactly. It's not "just you."

i agree with oldmarine and TTH. but as always... hobby on garth!

JPdM

Nothing says I love you like spraying her face.

Haven't done it and never will!

Some providers like it, some don't.

I do not understand why a gent would want to dispose his goods on a face he wants to rub, caress and kiss afterward.

Just my tiny humble opinion.

I asked the same thing, for the same reason a while back.

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=67248