Even in a bad economy there are plenty of dining establishments in this great land of ours where one can easily drop $150 on dinner for two before even getting to the wine. Here are some that IMHO are actually worth it. This is limited geographically since I don't travel to New York, Los Angeles, or Dallas. I'd like to see what others' favorites are.
Charlie Trotter's, Chicago--Tasting menu only and sometimes a bit hit-or-miss, but at this place the celebrity chef is actually in the kitchen. I've only had a few near-orgasmic experiences with food, and two of them were in the same meal here. Wine pairings are superb.
El Quenepo, Vieques Island, PR--Seafood mofongo made with local lobster and breadfruit from the tree in the back yard is just an example of the fresh fare here. Limited wine selections but some truly inspired house cocktails.
Allegro Romano, San Francisco--A neighborhood Italian joint, SF style. The owner and waitstaff are all absolutely flaming and the food is to die for.
Redd, Yountville, CA--Fresh ingredients perfectly prepared with a terrific (and very reasonably priced) wine list.
Picayo, San Juan, PR--Three words: Wild Mushroom Risotto.
Spiaggia, Chicago--Great Italian food with an excellent wine list.
Others?