It's been a while since I have made a threAD, this one is about client/customer etiquette and tact.......

I try to stay neutral and out of trouble, I don't bother anyone and I respect many of my provider coworkers (especially when they TCB giving me a fast reference). So thank you ladies for that.

My bitch fit comes to the gents whom I love to meet and please, but to get to that point I have ran into some sour grapes. And I have made my rates and even my entire activity list clear. The appointment of fun gets ruined before we even meet :-(

I am known to push more towards the kinky side and give my all to give you the most explosive Orgasm so you feel relieved and happy at the end. I get that with a list as long as mine, there must be more right? Wrong! I will add it if I find another activity that I enjoy. For this reason I only see 1 gent in any particular day, possibly 2. I want to give you all of what I offer!

I feel that I give you more and that makes me happy that we can maintain a friendship of understanding of what I am about and also about my TCB skills, I am older and I take my job (you) very serious out of respect for the time you set aside for us!

So what I'm getting at is this, if it's not on the list, don't ask about anything pertaining to it. I love adding more kinky fun things to that list, and I would put anal if I offered it.

Oh with an ass like yours you should do greek! Well at my age do you think I haven't tried it? I would love to put more $$ in my pocket, so if it's something I would enjoy I would add it (because my list is absolutely activities that I do enjoy). If you aren't going to enjoy and have a good time, get a day job seriously!

I was asked by someone if they could spit in my face. My response, sure if you want a broken nose. He said that was a rude answer and he would ask because my list was long and kinky. But did you see humiliation (to me), or spit in my face? I am selling something here, if I did it I would make it clear. I'll reverse it and do it on you, but it's understood from the beginning. Btw, calling me your little bitch and nasty slut makes me go crazy I fucking love it!(not the same).

Can I give you extra to cum in your pussy? Again my list is clear so I shouldn't have to deal with questions like this. Is bbfs, or creampie on my list? NO! Yes I'm kinky and yes I can be vanilla, I am however a ordinary woman and a conservative person to the outside world. I however love the "I get to be a Milf and fuck the shit out of you" secret life. I just lust it.

Bottom line most gents 99% can't make it half way through my list without their head spinning, 90 minute+ appointments are my favorite and I go wherever my kinky mind takes us. There is enough to satisfy the vanilla guy, even most kinky guys. I can't please everyone, shame!

I'm not sure about etiquette when you send a pm to a provider who hides activities etc, I'm sure you would have questions, but your questions for me should be quite easy and fast to move on to a actual appointment.

I'm also not sending face pictures anymore, I have enough reviews with gents who have actually seen me to say what they think. Due to me having a family life I don't think it's in my best interest to show face pictures that can float around the Internet. My video session are even a couple of minutes long and I try not to show anything that can pinpoint myself.

Thanks for listening to my rant, these were just things that I felt I needed to bring up, and I didn't feel like posting them in my ad.

Look at my rates and list and realize you are getting a lot, and you won't regret it! Don't turn me off by endless questions out of left field. It seriously turns me off, and I want to have fun. So don't spoil it for the both of us. Let's fuck like wild monkeys on viagra and enjoy the fuck out of it!

To borrow from Mythos, here's the CliffsNotes:

1. Read my Showcase and reviews.
2. Don't ask for stuff I don't advertise.
3. No face pics.
4. Be respectful.
5. For a good time, call me.

Still too long........clif note to the cliff notes......

Just because I spit on your dick does not mean you can spit on my face......nag...nag

Still too long........clif note to the cliff notes......
Originally Posted by dearhunter

Fine. Here's one brief sentence that can be applied by all providers to all clients:

Stick to my rules, or you won't be sticking it.

No fisting, or BBCR? And she calls herself "kinky" (sic)!

Now, it is just nag nag

What is "Safe Stripper Slide"?

What is "Safe Stripper Slide"? Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

With a condom

No fisting, or BBCR? And she calls herself "kinky" (sic)! Originally Posted by chicagoboy

I don't TUMA either



My don't do list is shorter! Either way, read, keep convo short and sweet!

Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

I know it can get very irritating to have to answer the same sorts of questions over and over again.

I feel that way at times as well.

One tactic I use, is that if I receive a message that is just too outlandish, I ignore it completely. No point in wasting my time when a gent asks me for something I have clearly stated I do not offer.

You can start to get a feel for what type of client he is just from the way he initially approaches/contacts you. If I feel someone's style doesn't match up with mine, I tend to move on to others who I think do.

It's good to be discerning as a provider, I would say even necessary. Not all business is the kind of business you want anyways.

I took a look at your showcase, and I did notice you add a few lines about what you do not offer. The line I use is something like, "This is the entirety of what I offer, I appreciate not being asked to provider any services outside of this."

Perhaps you can change yours to something like this, and it will get the message across to them more clearly.

Of course, there will always be those who don't bother reading your showcase at all. I get asked all the time, "What info do you need for screening?" When it is clearly there in my showcase.

Honestly, at this point, I feel like any kind of legit gent, tends to send screening info, etc on the first contact. Because they are experienced in the hobby, they understand what sort of etiquette and decorum are expected.

Any sort of messages with less than that, tend to get shifted to the bottom of my priorities in terms of who I will respond to faster.

I have also seen some ladies who state clearly things like, "If you do not send the required screening info, I will not respond to you."

I don't think I'd want to be quite that stern at this point, but I have considered it as of late, to be honest, lol.

I kind of understand what OP is getting at but sorry to say this if you can set your boundaries you will have clients talking out the side of the neck to the neck client say stuff but everyone knows with me safety always first and if your dick don't look or smell right it doesn't touch my mouth and look at my butthole funny and we will fight lol. Now I will say I open my menu to a few of my clients and why is cause I would rather keep my regulars that have been seeing me since day one I became a member in the hobby. But not one client can say he has ever disrespected me or got my starfish. It has a lot to do with respect and how you treat your clients. Ones that talk down on me is ONLY CAUSE I REFUSE SERVICE OR TIME. SO ones that talk don't me shit and the ones that wish they could see me are the only ones that say negative shit.

JFYI

what one provider does behind closed doors is her hustle, now a lot of young dumb pimped chick's thinks that cheap and low ball'in will help there hustle sorry it's service and treating clients like how they want to be treated.

VoH, it gives me an idea about their character and I will not see them, exactly. Me telling the guy "you can spit in my face, but I'll break your nose", was me scaring him to not want to see me. But he left it alone and continued to pm so I had to say, I'm not interested in meeting you! Have a good day. I don't put my screening information anywhere because it varies depending on the gent. So to get a pm saying, I want to see you, what do you need? Is refreshing!

Skylar, I'm known for being kind and generous, but I'll stop a train wreck before it happens. Not all money is good money. I'll save my services and reputation for someone who meets my standards. Sending dick pics, gets automatically blocked. Tons of sex questions while wacking off, gets a big fat fucking no!

Stick to my rules, or you won't be sticking it. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

^This!!!!

I personally find it alarming if a guy calls asking to spank. Everyone gets excited and smacks that ass, I like it. I like my hair pulled too. But when someone specifically ask to spank over the phone it sets off flags. Why the interest unless it's something unusual? What if he wants to hurt someone and in a way is looking for permission to hurt someone? Does this alarm anyone else?