Wondering how many providers have experienced a bruised or torn cervix from intercourse.
I always try to monitor a partner's response and adjust my um, vigor accordingly, but evidently I misread the situation. Thought she was responding to me and I was in one of those rare zones of perfect control, so I kept upping it a notch. When we took a break, she was in pain and in fact had to see dr next day who confirmed she had a bruised or torn cervix. The provider has been very gracious, but I am mortified. I will reimburse her for the medical visit of course, but she was told no intercourse for 2 weeks. She is younger (mid-twenties) than providers I usually see. I've been hobbying for a good 12 years or so and stupidly had no idea this could happen.
So a word of caution to fellow hobbyists. I think this is more likely to happen with younger providers. Not sure why I believe that, but seems true to me that more mature, experienced women tend both to respond to stronger touch (of all types) than younger ones, and are more assertive letting you know if you're being a bit too rough.