Here i have a stupid question

Ladies if you are chatting with a future client and he tells you he hasnt had sex in over 13 years. Do you believe him, does it scare you? What would be your thought of having a session with someone like that? call me curious, and a born again virgin i guess.

Some may be freaked, others would welcome the challenge. It just depends on who you approach.

I would be waiting for the next omission and question: "...and I had a blood test last month. So can we do it bare?"

Not saying you are "that guy", but if you told me you hadn't dipped the nugget in thirteen years, I'd be waiting for the shtick. No offense its just that we get are fare share of stories and pitches around here.

If you came across as sincere and not just trolling for bareback then I would inquire about the reason for the dry spell. Depending on why, I'd either jump in pussy-first or politely decline.

Good luck in your search!

Edit: Another thought is why even mention it if you think it will be a problem? We get nervous/shy guys visiting us. Its our role to make it more natural and comfortable for them.

I think it should be mentioned, because the guy would likely be clumsy, his parts may not operate easily, he may be nervous to excess.. then the Provider doesn't have to worry and wonder..

How would a guy who hasn't had sex in 13 years end up here? Let's hope he leaves his frock at home. It may freak some providers out. But then there are others.....

He should find an established mature lady and tell her his story. She can decide from there.

Maybe he knew my ex.

13 years or 13 days, why does it matter?

But, in general I believe everyone would question it
Has he been in prison? A coma?
Bad communication skills with women?

It's not hard to get laid if one really tries.
It may take time, effort and or money.

I'd be curious if someone said 13 years

I think it should be mentioned, because the guy would likely be clumsy, his parts may not operate easily, he may be nervous to excess.. then the Provider doesn't have to worry and wonder.. Originally Posted by Chung Tran

That shit happens even if the guy was with a Provider a couple of days ago...and last week...and two weeks ago...

I would be waiting for the next omission and question: "...and I had a blood test last month. So can we do it bare?"

Not saying you are "that guy", but if you told me you hadn't dipped the nugget in thirteen years, I'd be waiting for the shtick. No offense its just that we get are fare share of stories and pitches around here.

If you came across as sincere and not just trolling for bareback then I would inquire about the reason for the dry spell. Depending on why, I'd either jump in pussy-first or politely decline.

Good luck in your search!

Edit: Another thought is why even mention it if you think it will be a problem? We get nervous/shy guys visiting us. Its our role to make it more natural and comfortable for them. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

im sure you do and im not lookin for someone to BBFS it is a simple question that is all. I understand the health reasons behind safe sex and i dont want anything for life.

How would a guy who hasn't had sex in 13 years end up here? Let's hope he leaves his frock at home. It may freak some providers out. But then there are others.....

He should find an established mature lady and tell her his story. She can decide from there. Originally Posted by OldGrump

a buddy of mine i grew up with told me to get laid and directed me to here. that was a year ago and i finally joined 2 weeks ago.

It's believable. It's not that uncommon. I don't have to pry about the reasons particularly, if he wants to talk about it, then I'd certainly listen. Doesn't scare me at all, the ladies are often here as a first foray back into the world of intimacy, for guidance and not harsh judgment.


If it's just a story, oh well, there are more imaginative lies than that, right? (and still no sympathy for bare)

13 years or 13 days, why does it matter?

But, in general I believe everyone would question it
Has he been in prison? A coma?
Bad communication skills with women?

It's not hard to get laid if one really tries.
It may take time, effort and or money.

I'd be curious if someone said 13 years Originally Posted by TallDallasGuy

all my friends called it extremely bad luck and timing. I am not kidding i have always been a little shy was in the Navy and because of things i was constantly moving around and instead of lookin for a quick role in the hay i was wanting more of a releationship. Years of bad luck and bad timing i switched to just get a quickie from someone. I tried adultfriendfinder craigslist and many dating sites to no avail. My old friend used to hobby a while back he told me about eccie and i finally got around to it.

Like i said its not for the please let me bbfs you it is simply hey im rusty as anything and nervous please be a little gentle and help me remember what this is all about.

Unless there is a health condition preventing you from having sex, like heart problems, etc., I wouldn't worry about what other people think on how long it is been for you or anyone.

If you're worried about not knowing what to do with the provider in bed or afraid your orgasm quickly, get someone that is a newbie friendly. Maybe someone who has been doing this a few years, possibly over the age of 30 who may not be in it just for a quick buck and will try to rush you out the door!

At the end of the day, they really don't care how long it is been since you have had sex! Sometimes a provider, good provider, can help someone who has any type of phobia, i.e., speaking to women, having actual sex, etc. if you possibly have confidence issues, a paid escort can definitely start to help you on that! You're paying them for their time and for a specific reason: specific female attention you aren't getting elsewhere!

Ladies if you are chatting with a future client and he tells you he hasnt had sex in over 13 years. Do you believe him, does it scare you? What would be your thought of having a session with someone like that? call me curious, and a born again virgin i guess. Originally Posted by Duthgar1976

As long as gangrene hasn't set in the balls . . . then we're good to go.

On the other end, I would like to witness a cum load that has been saved up for 13 years!

Anyway, welcome to the hobby.

Id be excited and take it slow