Making Some Pussy Policy Changes

Danielle Reid's Avatar
It seems I've been too comfortable so now I'm cracking down and making some changes. These could be permanent or temporary. Only time will tell.

1. No longer newbie friendly until further notice. Must have 2 reliable references OR have an ACTIVE account on these boards older than 2 weeks
a. ACTIVE=POSTS
b. Spam and trolling doesn't count

2. References older than 6 months are no good
a. yes I know you saw ProviderA over 3 years ago and she may remember the color of your hair, but sorry bud that doesn't count anymore

3. Incall ONLY unless I've seen you more than once OR you have reliable references
a. Rates will be posted in my ads
b. may run specials at any given time
c. if we are meeting for the first time and you want an outcall date with RELIABLE references then it MUST be a residence
d. dinner dates are exempt from this rule if meeting in a public restaurant

I apologize for the drama and/or inconvenience. And I'm aware of the lack of cock action I may receive from this. But at this time I believe it's for the best. Thank you for respecting that.
A situation like this is an industry hazard... Just a fact. Don't let it get you down. It could have happened to any one of us. It happened to me right out of the starting gate, many years ago. You've learned from it, & you're making changes. That's what's important.

Your post definitely shows incredible fortitude & character. A weaker person would have tried to hide it. I hope the guys here appreciate that as much as I do, and step forward to show you their support!
  • ndark
  • 09-23-2015, 03:15 PM
Better to be safe & free from incarceration...
Trinity Kane's Avatar
Ok I apparently missed something. Mary Beth I am glad that you are ok though.
MB, this too shall pass. But I'm glad to see you are taking it seriously and improving your screening.
Danielle Reid's Avatar
A situation like this is an industry hazard... Just a fact. Don't let it get you down. It could have happened to any one of us. It happened to me right out of the starting gate, many years ago. You've learned from it, & you're making changes. That's what's important.

Your post definitely shows incredible fortitude & character. A weaker person would have tried to hide it. I hope the guys here appreciate that as much as I do, and step forward to show you their support! Originally Posted by Ginger Doll
Thank you Ginger. It was one big slap in the face lol
Danielle Reid's Avatar
Ok I apparently missed something. Mary Beth I am glad that you are ok though. Originally Posted by Trinity Kane
Fell for a sting, got busted. Scared the shit out of me. I'm ok though, just spent the evening with some well dressed escorts
You looked good in youre picture...pretty smile...
You looked good in youre picture...pretty smile... Originally Posted by TX Guy
I thought the exact same thing!!
hogmanjones's Avatar
None of your policies are unreasonable, and under the circumstances completely understandable.
Danielle Reid's Avatar
You looked good in youre picture...pretty smile... Originally Posted by TX Guy
One of the girls made me laugh right before the photo was taken lol. She said "show them you glamour model pose! Stop smiling so big!" I tried to keep from laughing out loud
Danielle Reid's Avatar
None of your policies are unreasonable, and under the circumstances completely understandable. Originally Posted by hogmanjones
Thank you. I tried to stay reasonable and not seem like I'm locking down
Trinity Kane's Avatar
Fell for a sting, got busted. Scared the shit out of me. I'm ok though, just spent the evening with some well dressed escorts Originally Posted by MaryBeth
Well damn. I definitely missed that. Glad your ok girl and staying positive. I learned my lesson a few years back and have been screening ever since. I also stopped using back page because of it. It's better to use caution and screening methods in the business. A lot safer that way as well. I learned the hard way unfortunately but I didn't let that stop my shine and I'm gla your not letting it stop yours either.
...I learned my lesson a few years back and have been screening ever since. I also stopped using back page because of it. Originally Posted by Trinity Kane
I have to disagree on the Backpage thing. Any escort website is as safe as you choose to make it. The key is consistent, diligent screening. Have unwavering requirements, and you will be fine, regardless of where you advertise. There are cops on Eccie, too.

I've met many wonderful guys from BP over the years. It's also a great location announcement when touring. I know that most guys in the hobby regularly browse it, so I'd be missing valuable exposure by not advertising there.

PS. My problem did not occur on Backpage... It was escorts.com.
Danielle Reid's Avatar
I won't stop usingn back page since that's where 90% of my money comes from. Got hung up on 5 times tonight because I asked for references. I knew it would cut my business down a lot and that's fine