WTF is it with providers

Guess I've been out of the game a long time-- too much fun with my 5 year long SB relationship, but I've kinda kept tabs on what is going on. From what I see, I don't like it at all.


With the rise of pay by aps, I've notice a lot of girls DEMANDING a deposit before booking. What the hell is up with that? If I were still in the game, I'd tell those provider to take their GPS and shove it where the sun don't shine. Ladies, don't disrespect your potential clients. They are NOT stupid. Any man who pays a deposit upfront is a complete fool.

And yet, as the man said, one is born every minute...
It must work because you see it so often.
And it's safer than "Cash and Dash"
Or the BBG coming to the door.
Not everyone is an ECCIE member and see what we see.

I require a deposit if I’m going to an out call that’s over 15 minutes away and that is because I’ve been sent to several bogus out calls. And let me say this, any lady who is willing to steal some petty 10 or $20 deposit money that is supposed to be for gas clearly is very unsuccessful at running her business and bad habits. I’d much rather get my full donation plus much more on repeat visits rather than steal a deposit lol.

With that being said, respect must be given both ways. Also I travel a lot and gents know I travel where the $ is calling me. When I have people in my favorite cities sending me deposits telling me to come to their city I continue to go there most often rather than the places where people ask me to travel to but have no respect for my time and schedule and cancel after I’ve traveled and paid for all of my travel arrangements.

It is sad that anyone would be concerned with stealing petty deposits. And any lady who cares about her reputation would never steal a deposit. Just like a reputable client wouldn’t waste a ladies time of course.

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Naw. I said it right the first time.

I can kinda understand if the lady is traveling to ME, like in Nicole's case.

But if I'm travelling to see HER, I very rarely do a deposit if I'm seeing someone new.

I've done a deposit with ladies I've seen several times, and only if they haven't gypped me in the past.

... any lady who is willing to steal some petty 10 or $20 deposit money that is supposed to be for gas clearly is very unsuccessful at running her business and bad habits. Originally Posted by Nicole Bloom

Many of these ladies they're probably talking about usually want a deposit of 50 or 100. If their meeting price happens to be only 200, then that's either a fourth or half of the donation.

But then again, I've travelled an hour to meet up with ladies before, only to end up being ghosted. Where's MY deposit or MY time and gas? (I'm saying this jokingly, of course... lol)

For me, if it is someone who is not local, not reviewed a request for deposit is viewed as nothing more than a scam. We could probably all bump over to STG and find a scammer on the first page. I get out all needing one and traveling even more.

I think it all comes back to the tried and true indicators and research. Does the provider have reviews from more than one person across more than 6 months. Did the provider ask for a reference? Is she a local? Of course there are mitigating circumstances to all of these, but if all of these questions are no the red flags are flying.

I think it is the STG girls.

LOL talking ppl into existence these days are ya.

It is sad that anyone would be concerned with stealing petty deposits. And any lady who cares about her reputation would never steal a deposit. Just like a reputable client wouldn’t waste a ladies time of course. Originally Posted by Nicole Bloom

Half the time it isn’t ladies stealing deposits and the other half the time they either aren’t anywhere near where they are advertising, or never actually work, just steal deposits for a living.

And Cpalm, if any want a deposit a d you can’t verify them on here or p411, then I would just go ahead and assume it’s a scam

I really dont think he need pointers when it comes to this playing field. Just saying pcolaman39 you may can use some from Cpalmson.

I have to Agree with cpalm. I was in hobby 2001 -2014, took 7 yr hiatus.. recently returned...alot things have definitely changed. Alot more scamming going on . I ve been asked Deposits on a Incall think wtf.. this Provider cant even tell you incall city they asked where your at and how long...and their phone # isn't local . and if you look on other sites these same scammers working the Globe....what happen to using good olde non traceable CASH.. just my 2 cents

You guys need to stop dating "escorts" and get on seeking arrangements or secret benefits, the girls come for the night, BB, and everything, I found one, the hottest girl I have ever been with (and I guess I have been with 75-80), see her Monday 2-3 hours, Wed 2-3 hours and overnight Saturday, tab $1000 a week, the Saturday alone is worth that. She brings like 4-5 vibrators and some primo smoke and is like that girl friend you always wished you had. Well I do lol

Paying for pussy is still paying for pussy no matter if it’s an escort or sa chick I know they don’t think of themselves as escorts but hey they take your money and give you pussy that’s exactly what an escort does just as a hooker yeah you may get a longer visit and bare back ( how many other Sugar D’s are they fucking ??) i’d still wrap it up !!

“Escorts” SA chicks ... pretty much the same maybe a little more GFE with the SA girlies but still your paying for pussy aka dating “ escorts”

But yeah I’ve had fun on sa not gonna lie taken vacas with some and had plenty of over nights with others and didn’t have to drop a bunch of money on them a few bills here and there a dinner or 2 it was fun but having to sift through the ones just wanting money for nothing sucked