Do women really say this?

I've had a couple gentlemen that gave me a similar gal as a refrence
When I asked for her number they let me know she's not a very good refrence or she rude and "bitches" at them when they go to see other gals when she's in town .....
Another one said she doesn't like it when he goes to see other females other then her so don't ask for a refrence....
What's up with that ?
I thought we share the love ?
I always let a gentleman know they are welcome to use me as a refrence why do other women tell other men they aren't able to see other people if she's in town .... is that even a thing being able to tell someone I won't see you if you go to see other women ????
Controlling much
When I reached out saying her its Jasmin
I wanted to verify (Name) his number is (#) you last saw his late December can you verify he's save or legit she responded with "hey" I resent my previous message and no response for 3 days. Reached back out for a different gentleman asking if he's legit. Safe. Clean and nit associated with LE and got a response of okay. I asked for clarity and response was "yep it is"
Why are gals so against giving a refrence?
Im sure men know who I'm talking about but can someone give me some insight on it. I'm in the dark

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I try to be diligent and timely when giving references
and as thourough as possible


it baffles me to,but i think other gals are scared of loosing clients to other gals,so they dont give references for that reason....hmmmm thats just my guess

we all gotta keep each other safe

I try to be diligent and timely when giving references
and as thourough as possible

we all gotta keep each other safe Originally Posted by DallasRain

I know you do beautiful! Your always on point respectful and so open and honest in refrences I love seeing guys who use you as a refrence!

You really expect men to be able to explain the thoughts and behavior of women lol!? I just appreciate them and move along.

You really expect men to be able to explain the thoughts and behavior of women lol!? I just appreciate them and move along. Originally Posted by Mr. Crowley

Haha I guess that pretty presumptions of me ! Lol some gals do have some dysfunctional way of thinking 🤣

I couldn’t agree more!!!

Aside from the obvious delusions of one graying has-been I’ve been holding on to email/text from another still popular lady. I will be posting shortly after I edit the identity. Her words will drive home what you said! Guaranteed “oh shit” eye roller!!!

Lol some gals do have some dysfunctional way of thinking 🤣 Originally Posted by JasminDelights

I couldn’t agree more!!!

Aside from the obvious delusions of one graying has-been I’ve been holding on to email/text from another still popular lady. I will be posting shortly after I edit the identity. Her words will drive home what you said! Guaranteed “oh shit” eye roller!!! Originally Posted by dumars

Oh really!

I always try to be accommodating with references doll!

Oh yes, really! Keep in mind your words “some gals”.

My experience with “some gals” is in the past for the most part. I still have an unread email that can only be viewed as a “manifesto” by a reasonably sane person from a lady from the past that was sent to me relatively recently. Then there’s the much more recent email and text from another I mentioned above. I’m having 2d thoughts of posting either would be petty and frivolous. And also ‘cause Gmail and voice is HARD to edit, copy & paste within iPad!

Oh really! Originally Posted by JasminDelights

Haha I guess that pretty presumptions of me ! Lol some gals do have some dysfunctional way of thinking 🤣 Originally Posted by JasminDelights

Many women, not all, have some types of dysfunctional way of thinking regularly; about once a month. I remember asking my dad what was wrong with mom: I was about 8 or 9.

His reply: just leave her alone, this will pass because it usually does.

Before anyone jumps on to criticize because I mentioned the unmentionable: it is just one of the many facts of life we all know about.

Girl..I have been around long enough and HELL YES some girls say ALL OF THIS! IN FACT it's their WHOLE MARKETING PLAN. I know it makes it difficult for the gents and us as providers who geniunely reference friendly.

I've had a couple gentlemen that gave me a similar gal as a refrence
When I asked for her number they let me know she's not a very good refrence or she rude and "bitches" at them when they go to see other gals when she's in town .....
Another one said she doesn't like it when he goes to see other females other then her so don't ask for a refrence....
What's up with that ?
I thought we share the love ?
I always let a gentleman know they are welcome to use me as a refrence why do other women tell other men they aren't able to see other people if she's in town .... is that even a thing being able to tell someone I won't see you if you go to see other women ????
Controlling much
When I reached out saying her its Jasmin
I wanted to verify (Name) his number is (#) you last saw his late December can you verify he's save or legit she responded with "hey" I resent my previous message and no response for 3 days. Reached back out for a different gentleman asking if he's legit. Safe. Clean and nit associated with LE and got a response of okay. I asked for clarity and response was "yep it is"
Why are gals so against giving a refrence?
Im sure men know who I'm talking about but can someone give me some insight on it. I'm in the dark

{staff edit-CK-- image removed as it is not germane to the conversation and makes this an ad. Picture posts as a threAD are allowed} Originally Posted by JasminDelights

It’ gets me to I have guys that sit there an tell me this oh she wouldn’t be ok with it !
Like come on An grow up ! He is not gonna top seeing you ! If you ever get a gentleman from me please make sure to text me in always reference friendly!

It’ gets me to I have guys that sit there an tell me this oh she wouldn’t be ok with it !
Like come on An grow up ! He is not gonna top seeing you ! If you ever get a gentleman from me please make sure to text me in always reference friendly! Originally Posted by Nicolefoxx1

Any provider that reasonbly thinks im theirs soley will be dissapointed.

I like different flavors of ice cream as do they

AMEN!!

Any provider that reasonbly thinks im theirs soley will be dissapointed.

I like different flavors of ice cream as do they Originally Posted by BigDeal

Girl..I have been around long enough and HELL YES some girls say ALL OF THIS! IN FACT it's their WHOLE MARKETING PLAN. I know it makes it difficult for the gents and us as providers who geniunely reference friendly. Originally Posted by Emmie

How can this be a marketing plan. Thus would seem it turns men away from seeing women like this!