Can you spot a provider in a crowd?

On an average day (running errands, paying bills, etc.) I always dress casual (cute top, jeans, wedges and of course make-up). But over the years I've had men at gas stations, malls, and grocery stores walk up and ask me what I charge. Which by the way is very uncomfortable. But afterwards I always wonder what it is about me that makes them ask.
So to the men out there
have you ever just been able to spot a provider in a crowd?
To the ladies has this ever happened to you and did you ever figure out how they knew?

Maybe they recognize you from your showcase or ads.

As for me, unfortunately, I can only spot those who I want to be providers, and have not approached any of them.

They must have seen your ad some place.Just by looking at someone how would know if they are a brain surgeon, or a dishwasher.

Were you pulling 20's out of a blank envelope? ;-)

I'm also guessing they saw your ads somewhere, at least I'd hope so. I can't imagine what I'd do if random strangers just walked up and asked me that.......

I do know when I go out with friends we like to play a game and guess who may or may not be.....

The TEAM SL T-Shirt is a dead give away! IJS

I truly cannot fathom anyone being able to discern you are a provider, or being so forward and rude to ask the question you state is asked. If I didn't feel that your question was coming from your heart, I would conclude this is a question without merit.

Now....when it comes to whether a woman is easily seduced....that I can usually discern in a very short time. Knowing what one's vocation is, absent a neon sign, I have no idea.

You may wish to come to Texas. I doubt you will experience such behavior here. Our tongues may be hanging out and salivating, but we won't presume a woman is a provider, and ask such a rude question.

i have had people in the french quarter recognize me just by my hairstyle and hair color

yes. i can remember few years back stopping at a gas station late at night and seeing an exes best friend wearing high heels and dressed up slutty with short shorts and very revealing top. all the guys in there were looking her up and down. I just shook my head .. turns out i was right.. X told me she had run into money issues and with 3 kids she had to get into that

she looked totally different than what I remembered based on how she dressed and her makeup so it was easy to spot

Some women are just naturally provocative.

. . . Do you sway your hips in a suggestive manner and maybe spin your purse as you walk?

Buying condoms in bulk at Costco and quart size lube at Sam's is also a dead give-a-away... Just kidding.

I usually think the opposite. I see lots of ladies at the grocery store or at Walgreens and I think, if they were, what would they charge and what would I pay?

HB

Tell them you charge $500/hr

I have guys that somehow know my facebook page and message me their about money. I just laugh and tell them they'd never afford me then block them and report them to the admins.

It Only happens to me when I am in New York, Bear mountain, Upstate etc..

One of the guys in midtown was a Train conductor and I noticed him looking at my family and myself while we were on the trains.

When I got home that night there was an Email from asking was it me on x specific train, at this time of day and that he was a Huge fan.. I asked him the same exact thing... where did you figure this out or how did you know it was me? He simply replied,

" You have a very distinctive look" it's kinda hard not to notice you even fully dressed with your family and bundled in the middle of NYC...

Maybe you have a very particular look...

But for me it's not just my advertising it's I do So many other things to where people know its me..

However, none of the guys that recognize me have never approached me alone in public or while with family.. they will call or email me later that day..




Good luck for anyone that tries to steal your pics It would never work).... lqtms..

I usually don't show my face on my pics but sometimes my back tattoo shows but it is rude to ask somebody when you could just ask for my phone number. Once I was at Quiktrip and my kids were in the car and I rudely explained to him that he must be mistaken and he musta recognized me from the hospital where I was a nurse

No one will ever recognize me. I usually dress like a bum or tennis outfit if I am going to a match. And I never wear any make up. I just don't like the unwanted attention from men and most of the time I would like to be left alone. :-)