Can too many reviews/okays be a turn off?

Just wanted to make sure the Dallas group saw this...I posted it on the National board but since I am in Dallas often would be really interested to know the girls opinions..

Thank you,
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1148064

His posting content and mannerisms are much more important to me, rather than his review count. My opinion only.

I like to think too many yes reviews from an individual means that we screen really well. *shrugs*

I have never understood how reviews can take the place of screening?

His posting content and mannerisms are much more important to me, rather than his review count. My opinion only. Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

My sentiments exactly. I could care less about how many reviews or okays he has, I care about whether a lady would be willing to see him again.

I was challenged by a prospective Provider about the number of Ok's. When I askedher to see how many years over which they were given , TG, she could do math. We connected.

I have close to 50 OKs on p411. Most of the time when I set an appointment with a provider, I do it because after my research, I view her as a potential ATF or I would not have contacted her. Since first impressions are everything, obviously, we have to see each other and the ENTIRE time from initial contact (showing her TCB skills) first meeting, the session itself (not just if I got off) up until I walk out the door must go at least very well to outstanding for me to see them for a second time. One reason many of the providers who I have seen, and her viewing my p411 profile, have been all talk and very little to no action as far as what I like so no reason for me to see them for future visits. A couple of providers who I would notate as ATF, travel a lot and our schedules do not tend to mesh much of the time.

Since I did schedule and show up on time, was prepared (hygiene, donation, ect) was respectful of her and left when my time was up, then I SHOULD get an OK on p411 from that provider (one reason why if I choose to do a review, I wait until after I receive my OK from her to do it). WALDT, so sometimes, even after extensive research, you just do not mesh well with another person upon meeting them and/or in a session, which is all about being on a comfortable enough level with someone to be intimate with them and allowing them to share your personal space. So it should not be a question of whether of not a provider will see a particular client again, but rather is the potential client safe to see for a session. Of course, it is ultimately up to the provider if she wants to schedule a session with a potential client who would like to see her which the OKs as long as a few are recent in the last couple of months should mean he is good to go as far as screening purposes go, and IMHO, the more the better.

I think if I have too many OKs or reviews the girls will think I'm easy.

I'm guilty of this. I will not see folks most likely if they have a lot of notches. But I also look at who they see..as in their type..and how often. But yes. I have my screening set in place for not me really. For them. I am doing them a favor by politely declining.

I'm guilty of this. I will not see folks most likely if they have a lot of notches. But I also look at who they see..as in their type..and how often. But yes. I have my screening set in place for not me really. For them. I am doing them a favor by politely declining. Originally Posted by CD3

A key part of this is "how often" ... if I guy has 20 P411 OKs .. or even posted reviews over 5 years ..? Tells me he is a now and then hobby guy.

I do not always ask for an OK and I have deleted some of my OKs, especially if the lady has moved on ... what's the point? But I recall a lady commenting that she didn't want to see a guy because of the number of OKs posted, so now and then .. I trim. Not often because my activity has really slowed in the last two years. I do not always post reviews. I tend to see well reviewed ladies who really don't care for any more reviews.

I put a lot of stock in how a lady presents herself in her ads and postings, how she communicates, how she handles TCB. If I send a msg on P411 and the lady doesn't check my profile but replies "when do you want to see me?", I lose interest in that lady.

FWIW ... from the day CD3 showed up ... I have enjoyed her presence .. immensely. I enjoy our PMs, too. Even so, she is waaaaay too much woman for poor old dodger. She terrifies me. I'll leave her to the sporty, macho, studmuffins ... seems there is no shortage of volunteers.

Thanks dodge. Casino soon.

It's not necessarily how many they have seen and I do look how long they have had an active account and take that into consideration...but more were they necessary on say p411 to have all those okays or has it turned into more like a pissing contest and/or bragging

I am one away from my 100th review. Are 99 Yes reviews in two years a bad thing?

I am one away from my 100th review. Are 99 Yes reviews in two years a bad thing? Originally Posted by thathottnurse

I would be more than happy to be your 100th reviewer...love...xo

Back to back reviews??? I'm in!

I am one away from my 100th review. Are 99 Yes reviews in two years a bad thing? Originally Posted by thathottnurse

everybody seems to operate with their own arbitrary criteria. Number of reviews might be part of it ... but for me, as I've said, it's what's in the review that matters. I care about how the lady presented herself ... no need to tell war stories. But some ladies put more effort into a sexy appearance than others .. and I appreciate it. I like my ladies a little slutty.

Maybe the biggest part of the review is the tone that tells me how the guy felt. If he felt connected to the lady. If they were both having fun. I don't care if the lady is acting. If fact, if she isn't enjoying my company, I would be grateful for some acting.

Something to be said about the type of visit, too. I don't read bng or half hour visits .. because I don't do those.