So long

Hey, folks. I have only been here a relatively short time, and I have enjoyed some of it, while hating other parts. I’ve learned a bit, and still lack much. Here’s a little advice for the others still learning the ropes:

Be decent. Always. Ladies - I know you have to put up with a lot of crap, and I’m sorry about that. But don’t treat the next guy like the last guy. He isn’t. Maybe polar opposite! He deserves a fair shot, just like you do.

Be decent. Always. Ladies - Be professional. Keep appointments. Or communicate. Don’t leave is hanging for hours wondering if you are going to show up. Don’t agree to meet and then ghost.

Be decent. Always. Guys - Don’t call the girls here hookers. Some may be. It may just be a different word to some. But show some respect. We are all here for the same reason, on one side or the other.

Be decent. Always. Guys - Don’t harass the ladies here. That isn’t going to get you anywhere. And there is no reason to be a jerk to them. If the tell you they don’t do something you want, keep looking elsewhere.

Be decent. Always. Guys - When you write those reviews, think about the consequences for the gal on the other side. I blew this one - huge. I didn’t consider the fallout for her by advertising the extra she allowed me, and the mods won’t help. Not only am I enemy #1 now, but she is talking about retirement. (Not just because of me - I’m not that special! See above, too.)

Be decent. Always.

I’m done with this scene. Be good to each other. You all deserve it. Always.

Dude, tell her to relax (& Ms Eleanor if you’re reading?) & just say no to the BS requests that she may be getting. There is more BBFS going on than most can imagine. You were special that day, she was ok with it, neither you or her need to apologize for it. It happens....all...the...time. It’ll blow over, & nobody thinks of her in any bad way. Both of you should stick around, ride it out. You’ve gotten a good start with your reviews. She’s a quality provider. Haven’t met her myself, but heard nothing but good.

Only thing I would suggest going forward is ask first & get approval before going public with including BBFS out in the open in the activities section lol. Keep it in the ROS, better yet, in PM with trusted mongers. Or best yet, keep it to yourself & enjoy the ride. There’s not a person on here that hasn’t fucked BB. In & out of the hobby.

Eh, I think she’ll stick around. This is just part of why I’m bailing. I wasn’t looking for this in the first place. This isn’t who I am. I’m not judging, but it isn’t who I want to be, either. Like I said, I am happy to have found and experienced it, but it is time for me to focus on being me. Moving on is the next step in my evolution, and I feel like it might even be the end of me “dating” at all.

The most important thing I haven’t learned is to shut up. Oh, the stories she could tell! You can see from that review, and from here, that I don’t know when to stop. I’m my own worst enemy so often. With that said, I should be going...

What a person does is not who they are, ever. Just be yourself and have a lot a freaking fun while doing so.

What a person does is not who they are, ever. Just be yourself and have a lot a freaking fun while doing so. Originally Posted by mrmacman

True words were just spoken...err, typed.