You are seen in public with your provider, what do you do?

I think this would be so much fun. To get to attend a political function or an event along these lines, that would be a really neat experience. Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise

Those events are usually so boring it would be great to spice it up!

What's wrong with being with a provider? :P

I've been out with my ATF for dinner,etc., and we've discussed what we should say if something like this came up. But we haven't had "that" conversation. Probably ought to have the conversation of what to do or say if I drop dead at her place or how best to dispose of our kinky things if either of us croaks.

I have an advantage as my children know what I am doing. If some one says any thing I just say she is my therapist. She sure keeps my heart rate up.

This thread is exactly why I mentioned "lack of visibility" as a required trait of a high class provider in the neighboring thread: http://eccie.net/showpost.php?p=1054661758&postcount=6

If the lady in question looks like they could be a business colleague/client there is less concern about being seen in public. There are plenty of women engaged at high levels of management today. Some of them are quite hot.

As long as your acquaintance doesn't see you heading for the elevator or into a room you should be good.

Pj: people in this hobby come from all walks of life, men and women alike. One of the more interesting cases of late was Suzy Hamilton, Olympian athlete, married, with kids, owned her own business. Sad there are those who can't just leave it alone and feel they need to "out" someone who is doing no harm.

You know, most people don't care who you're out with, it more a issue with the person being seen not the people that see them out,

And no most people don't believe, that old it's my fill in the blank answer particularly if you're in a place off the beaten path, they just don't speak about it, well not about it with you. you're better off letting them not know and guessing. most times people won't bring it up.

far better then them seeing you out with your SO and saying, your fill in the blank you were with at the blank is so whatever in front of them.

Also remember if you're out with a escorts, you don't know who she knows, one of those people you're trying to make a cover story for may already know what she does. and maybe is a past or present client themselves, I'm sure she won't let you know. and that guy not going to tell you.
So much ado about nothing

I've been in public with dates and when they have been time some gents get nervous they have let me know what to say..
A particular person in London uk had a full scenario that he want me to know and remember if we came across collegues and requested that I dress in a certain way
I believe ladies and gents should act normally ..I often think been quite but confident in pubic outing is the bets.I will not engage in a conversation where isn't in my knowledge
Knowing proper etiquette on how to behave at a table and how to eat is useful
Personally I am very comfortable that someone present me by Victoria I've been using that nickname for quite long and as my real name is Russian word most anglophone people have an hard time pronouncing it
VJ

I don't think I would go out with a hobbyist in the area that I live in. If I did, I would handle them the way I do with any other date. I would introduce her and after VERY brief conversation, I would expect the person to leave. If they didn't I'd do what I usually do: "Excuse me (Insert nosy persons name), but I'm on a date" (followed by silence and stony look on my face). This usually gets a "Oh I'm sorry, nice meeting you." before they are on their way. Like I said, I do this anyway. It's nobody's business who I'm out with.

When I'm meeting out in public with someone, the idea is that we are meeting up as friends, and the conversation between the two of us will be of two old friends catching up. Being out in public with me is not a time for business talk.

So, in my most recent case, I was out with my gentleman and he suddenly very softly whispers to me, "All those people over there?" He nods to a table of about five other men, busy in their conversation. "They know me.". I looked over to a table full of older gents and turned toward mine, "Who are you again?". I jokingly replied to him. I completely understood his position and kept my legs close together. I like to touch him under the table in public, nothing crazy, but slow gentle rubs from my knee to his. Let him know I'm there, thinking about him.

As far as anyone is concerned, if I'm asked to keep the touching to, "little to none", while we are out in public, I will be respectful and do so.

He has always introduced me as a friend. Nothing more, nothing less and I sincerely appreciate that.

If I meet some one I know I always say the young lady is my physiscal therapist.

Fortunately almost everyone who knows me knows that much of my work involves a lot of diverse people, and topics that can't be talked about. When I am with a lady I know well enough to know her real name, I make a generic introduction and use her real first name. If I don't know her name, I say she is a colleague and leave it at that--people hardly ever push it.

Any lady I am comfortable enough to take out, I assume will be adept at following along. Only once has one disappointed in that regard and it wound up being funny more than embarrassing to anyone.

2 or 3 times a year, various friends of ours come out to visit [these might be veterans that I have served with, or friends from previous duty stations, or relatives of mine]. It is not unusual to take friends out to dinner, and while at a restaurant it is not unusual to see other people that I know. I do not see reason to get worked up about it.

My family knows that I have a few 'lady" friends and have met several of them. I don't hide my hobby and the fact has not caused any problems. My wife passed away some years ago and the friend I have met in the hobby allow me to enjoy my life.

Similar to Tucson, I'm single.
One of the older retired gals is on my arm at company events to keep client princesses off me. A few other gals have met other of my family during outcalls. Of course we have cover stories.
Also one of my road warrior faves guests me into her gym to scarecrow off the gym rats that flock to her. One time, she was highly amused running off a gym civie gal that was chatting me up.

Seriously, it's not as if hobby guys and gals have signs hanging on them.