The visuals of the blowjob

Two porn scenes recent;y caught my eye.

First, porn starlet Sydney Cole was in Dallas last week. She's not one of my faves, but I did do a little research and found a scene from Mark's Hand Jobbers and Head Bobbers where she gives Mark a blowjob.

She's pretty good at what she does. But, aside from her skills as a fellatrix, what caught my eye was how the scene was sho. It was pretty much POV from over Mark's shoulder, with her on her stomach between his legs, and -- here's what I really noticed -- her legs bent at the knee and raised up so that they were visible. Really sexy. MHJAHB tends to do this a lot.

The other scene was with a newcummer, Ella Reese. Same basic position, but she's up on her knees for a bit so that the guy's POV gives him a view of her breasts (I love the symmetry, bt that shot is rare) and/or her raised ass.

I'd noticed the appeal of such positioning before, but that got me to thinking about how much attention both parties pay to the visuals of the blowjob. I think how it looks is probably more important in the visual medium, and, without a third-party director there to orchestrate things, both giver and givee tend to focus on the act itself.

To the question: Outside of good eye contact, is the visual an important part of the blowjob, and, if you, what, specifically? (Tried to word it to draw comments from both sides.)

Body language is always important and also goes to the mental state of the provider in her performance.

Eye contact, lip stick/lip gloss, the visual of when they stick their tongue all the way out and hold your manhood against it while gazing in your eyes and moaning/giggling... All that is great!

Also, I didnt realize this until I was with a certain well known provider but how their hands look stroking my member is a huge turn on as well. Her nails were done and she had beautiful hands. My dick in her hands was just pure art.

Enthusiasm is big for me. Otherwise I prefer the more traditional blowjobs, like the one in my avatar.

Oldie but goodie - google Loni Sanders vintage blowjob.

Should be a required training video for all providers.

Yeah its all about the IOP , the more they get into it the better

Yeah its all about the IOP , the more they get into it the better Originally Posted by rexdutchman

Agreed. I'm happy to see a hottie on my unit. When I grew up and in my youth - virtually NO girls/women I ever met liked to give BJ's, and certainly did not do CIM.

The eye contact is always interesting to me. Yes, it's very personal and cool, but I always wonder what the lady is thinking....

"I love this, do you too?"
"This is fun with this guy!"
"What's HE thinking, is this working for him?"
"Why aren't you looking at me back? Your eyes are closed, or you're looking elsewhere"
"Will you finish already? Damn, I have somewhere to go after this"
something else?

Don't watch porn. Your expectations go up too much when you hobby.

Don't watch porn. Your expectations go up too much when you hobby. Originally Posted by Shep3.0

Very true. In videos, sex can be fun, romantic, sensual, caring, passionate, or any number of other adjectives. In real life, it's just about the nut.


Porn stars fuck like their next job depends on it, which it does. Every body else, not so much, or not at all.

Enthusiasm is a big thing I hear....
Eye contact
I move in different positions for the bj...it’s my favorite part just about of all activities. Close second to kissing.

I’ve heard there is almost nothing better about the bi than the givers enthusiasm about doing it though even if it’s not the best bj

I always give a disclaimer about mine: we should put a towel down first

Oops was so enthusiastic I posted it twice lol

Enthusiasm is a big thing I hear....
Eye contact
I move in different positions for the bj...it’s my favorite part just about of all activities. Close second to kissing.

I’ve heard there is almost nothing better about the bi than the givers enthusiasm about doing it though even if it’s not the best bj

I always give a disclaimer about mine: we should put a towel down first Originally Posted by Analeese

Sloppy blow jobs are the best!

I always give a disclaimer about mine: we should put a towel down first Originally Posted by Analeese

Oh really?

Side view. I like to see myself disappearing in her mouth, not to mention be able to get a handful of ass, gently rubbing it, to let her know she's doing a great job.

Alexandra Quinn and Bobbi Bliss....very few compare. Look'em up....

Personally experienced Bobbi back 14yrs ago when I lived in Cali and she was doing this on the side. Was such a great experience, thought my central nervous system was going to collapse (from pleasure of course).