It's very similar to people who feel the need to tell you how nice they are. I have found that folks who have to constantly talk about how nice they are or all the good deeds they have done, usually aren't very nice, but they are trying to convince you otherwise before you find out how shitty they really are. Genuinely good people don't have to brag about it, and people who do good things for others don't do it to get credit for it, they do it because it makes them feel good. Crazy, I know.
If you are no drama, your reputation will speak for itself and there is no need to broadcast it.
Originally Posted by Dannie
I have known some very highly respected providers that have gone waaaayyyy outta their way to tell me the are drama free and in reality that's all I get outta them----DRAMA! I'm fully convinced that they tell me those things not to convince me, but rather to convince themselves!
I have never really believed that I am without drama, but rather try to handle each one as best I can! I can be dramatic, but only my very close friends know that side of me!
I think, being in the hobby, at some point, with or without your permission you will step on the drama pile! What makes u get by it, is how you choose to deal with it!
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