I have found recently with one or two specific providers in this area that they are refusing to verify for clients that they've seen and I'm just wondering what the logic behind this is? If anyone can explain that would be great because it doesn't make any sense to me. As far as I'm concerned it's our job ladies to look out for one another in this business. I'm not sure if they understand or not but their refusal to verify for someone isn't going to keep that client to themselves, as a matter of fact it's going to push some clients away from ever coming back... I've recently gotten some pretty negative feedback from clients about some providers attitudes when asked to verify for them. I won't name any names, that's not my place to do so, if you gentlemen feel like it's necessary to share about a providers attitude when asked to verify that's completely up to you. I'm just trying to understand the females logic behind this?? Originally Posted by spoiledkitten12The logic is simple. Other providers do not want the competition. That's why they won't give you references. They don't want their "regulars" straying off the reservation. It's sad unfortunately.
After speaking with one of the providers I was referring to and having a lengthy conversation with her I now have a better understanding as to why and I can understand and relate to where she is coming from. After speaking with her I do not believe she was refusing to verify out of Ill intent and I can definitely respect her position on the subject. But This is why I posted this thread, to understand... I appreciate everyone's input, I'm fairly new to the hobby and still learning as I go. Originally Posted by spoiledkitten12nice update...
After speaking with one of the providers I was referring to and having a lengthy conversation with her I now have a better understanding as to why and I can understand and relate to where she is coming from. After speaking with her I do not believe she was refusing to verify out of Ill intent and I can definitely respect her position on the subject. But This is why I posted this thread, to understand... I appreciate everyone's input, I'm fairly new to the hobby and still learning as I go. Originally Posted by spoiledkitten12As with you, I am still learning so I have no idea who you are talking about but it's good to get a fresh perspective and to go on. Just remember the old Russian Proverb.