Ok, you're new. you havn't went through all the drama yet with some of these crazy women. at first it will be exciting, strange, intriguing, funny and sad. You might be an asshole, in which case you can ignore this cause you got it covered. You might be a pushover. In which case you MUST read on. Or you just might be the guy that is maybe slightly in between. In any case this is a simple guide to getting rid of unwanted attention in the hobby from women you kind of don't want to make a big stink about with as little drama as possible.
I was in the bath one day and it hit me like a lightning bolt. I can't believe I didn't think of it before but my pain and suffering is your wake up call. I was seeing a girl. we had met several times, id call or text and she would reply we set up a meet everything is fine. well out of the blue one day I get asked for money. This newbs is where it starts, I thought we had a good thing going, she apparently didn't. now im not without sympathy or empathy or compassion. but I know this girl. and shes lazy. no drive, no motivation. just business. and im ok with that but when you plays with my moneys it gets tricky.
Now this is a sure fire way to stay out of trouble. I guarantee it.
she asks for help with some kind of monetary value or a favor. or whatever. do this trick and it will ensure that she does not bother you any more. there are two main tricks I use but feel free to experiment as you journey into this hobby. this is assuming you have known the girl for a bit and she is starting to act a little off. and asking you for more.
Trick #1 This is straight out from elementary school. Its so simple and effective. boy or girl says they like the other, the other yells cooties and runs away. That's right! you pull the ol' I love you/like you routine and one of two things will happen she will get freaked out, and move along and you are off scott free. OR the all time backfire and she plays the I love you too and starts asking for even more then you pull trick #2
This one will get you in trouble to some degree but listen, in the long run it will be worth it. If a girl is asking you for even more stuff. Trick # 2 is not for the faint of heart, you gotta have some sack to go through with it. Trick 2 is if you want a girl to leave you alone and not ask you for anything else you gotta ask her about bareback. She will respond of how disgusting you are and chew you out and WILL NEVER talk to you or ask you for anything again. And the genius part about it, is that she will think its all HER decision.
Lets be honest, in a perfect world you could just say no sorry I don't want to give anything right now and that would be the end of it, but once you've been around a couple times you see its not that simple and you pick up the triggers of what you can say to "mutually" end a business relationship without the other person giving a sob story or trying to guilt trip you. I am by no means telling you not to do what you think is right and as a newbie you will want to help but then you will wise up because IT WILL KEEP HAPPENING OVER AND OVER AND OVER. trust me, if you are in a pinch and just need a quick out this is the way to go.
Disclaimer: this is not meant for women with legitimate problems that are actually great. this is for the lazy people that don't NEED help they WANT help(you know who you are).