Female condoms

vegasbaby7's Avatar
Just wondering how many ladies & gents have tried them? And what you think of them?
I did recently & I hope I never have to use a male condom again! Bring them with me all the time now. Introduced 3 ladies to them in the last 3 months. Ladies seem to like them due to no irritation. I love them due to the more natural feel since the friction is on the male. I HIGHLY recommend them!!
KenMonk's Avatar
I have never used one but I want to try it. Most of the time ladies don't have them or just say its easier for you to wear the rubber.
Johnny4455's Avatar
Joe joe uses them. Very natural feeling. I like them
vegasbaby7's Avatar
I have never used one but I want to try it. Most of the time ladies don't have them or just say its easier for you to wear the rubber. Originally Posted by KenMonk
Do yourself a favor! Go online, buy some, take them with you on your next date. I've seen 3 ladies in the last 3 months that had never used them & all 3 were willing to give them a try. Add a little lube b4 inserting.
I thought I was seeing things when I saw this thread here in KC and the NE forum.

Any provider with half a brain should never use any kind of condom a client brings with him. Especially in KC. Some of the old ASPD folks remember the horror stories of a so called respected hobbyist who used to bring his own condoms, but little did the ladies know he tampered with them so they would break during the fun.
So you are lumping all of kc into one group because of one asshole years ago? nice.

There is nothing to gain by modifying the Female condom anyway.
It has always been my policy not to use condoms brought by a hobbyist for the reason Elena just stated. Not to mention the fact that I have no idea how old the condoms are, nor any idea how they have been stored. If his condoms are more than 6 months old, they are more likely to break. If he's been toting the condoms around in his glove compartment, the temperature swings from sitting inside a car make the condom more likely to break.

You think the guy from years back is the only anti-Einstein to come up with that idea? When it comes to our health and safety shrugging our shoulders and saying "meh, his was an isolated incident" is downright stupid.

I don't know what your beef with lumping all guys into one group is. You have a habit of painting providers with a single brush all the time.
So you are lumping all of kc into one group because of one asshole years ago? nice.

There is nothing to gain by modifying the Female condom anyway. Originally Posted by royamcr

Don't try to turn my words around into something I did not say. I'm not lumping all men into one pile, but its not smart for a lady to presume that ALL men are sweet and have their best intentions at heart because not all do. There are plenty of shady men out there who would tamper with a condom.

The female condoms are no different than male condoms, they can break. They actually have a higher failure rate than any other contraceptive methods too.
Not only female condoms break, I have in fact had a guy try to get around the female condom in K9, which is why I won't do K9 using a female condom now. He tried to push the female condom to the side, and insert his dick on the outside of the condom. So to assume that female condoms can't be in some way tampered with or circumvented is foolish.
It has always been my policy not to use condoms brought by a hobbyist for the reason Elena just stated. Not to mention the fact that I have no idea how old the condoms are, nor any idea how they have been stored. If his condoms are more than 6 months old, they are more likely to break. If he's been toting the condoms around in his glove compartment, the temperature swings from sitting inside a car make the condom more likely to break.

You think the guy from years back is the only anti-Einstein to come up with that idea? When it comes to our health and safety shrugging our shoulders and saying "meh, his was an isolated incident" is downright stupid.

I don't know what your beef with lumping all guys into one group is. You have a habit of painting providers with a single brush all the time. Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh


Been carrying one in my wallet since 1950 think it is still good?
I didn't say the female condom couldn't break. It just wouldn't be any gain to try to rip it so it will break. Thats all you need is a wad of broken rubber rubbing up against your dick...it's bad enough if the FC gets a little twisted.

As for the guy missing the 3" gaping opening of a FC, he needs better aim.... or maybe his belly was so big he couldn't see where his dick was going.

Been carrying one in my wallet since 1950 think it is still good? Originally Posted by i'va biggen
I think it belongs in a museum!

I didn't say the female condom couldn't break. It just wouldn't be any gain to try to rip it so it will break. Thats all you need is a wad of broken rubber rubbing up against your dick...it's bad enough if the FC gets a little twisted.

As for the guy missing the 3" gaping opening of a FC, he needs better aim.... or maybe his belly was so big he couldn't see where his dick was going. Originally Posted by royamcr
When the guy actually pushes the condom to the side, the issue isn't bad aim.
KCQuestor's Avatar
There are two situations where female condoms are especially nice:

1) FMF threesomes - Being able to move from one lady to another without switching condoms makes things more smooth and less awkward.

2) Anal sex - Female condoms remove the worry about making a mess when withdrawing. There is no risk of santorum, and the lady can head to the bathroom to clean up safely. Also, using multiple female condoms allows for anal-vaginal transitions, and even allows for ATM ('ass to mouth," a common fetish in porn nowadays).
BottomFeederKC's Avatar
Now I'm confused. Can she breathe in there?
KenMonk's Avatar
I thought I was seeing things when I saw this thread here in KC and the NE forum.

Any provider with half a brain should never use any kind of condom a client brings with him. Especially in KC. Some of the old ASPD folks remember the horror stories of a so called respected hobbyist who used to bring his own condoms, but little did the ladies know he tampered with them so they would break during the fun. Originally Posted by MsElena

I wasn't aware of that story, but I have heard that ladies dislike clients bringing their own condoms. which I totally get. Ever since a lady told me she didn't have any after a session had already started, then basically told me its bbbj/hj finish after i paid for an hour I bring my own for backup.

I have only had to use them a few times, but I feel better bringing them just in case.