Is there any difference between Hobbying and helping a girlfriend

Is there any difference between hobbying and helping a girlfriend who needs assistance. My stand answer if LE is at the door is that I am with my girlfriend and to fuck off.

If you have sex with her on a regular basis without the exchange of money, then its a girlfriend. If LE is at your door, odds are they have something that makes them believe that is not the case. Bring a framed photo you can setup in her incall so you can show it to LE as proof you are in a relationship. :-) And leaving stacks of money in envelopes in plain sight is not helping you with your case.

If you have seen her multiple times, who is to say she is not a girlfriend. Most women need financial assistance.

If you have seen her multiple times, who is to say she is not a girlfriend. Most women need financial assistance. Originally Posted by Bestman200600

That is a pretty insulting indictment of all women. Kind of odd coming from one of the biggest white knights in the history of this board.

If you have seen her multiple times, who is to say she is not a girlfriend. Most women need financial assistance. Originally Posted by Bestman200600

Bestman: Hi Miss Provider, I am broke, but please come over

Miss Provider: Are you fucking crazy, I am not your girlfriend

Bestman: I thought you liked me

Miss Provider: I like your money

Bestman: Damn reality sucks, I like my fantasy world better

If you have seen her multiple times, who is to say she is not a girlfriend. Most women need financial assistance. Originally Posted by Bestman200600

If your not sure of the difference between helping out your girlfriend and paying a hooker, prehaps you have not had any girlfriends?

You always pay for it in some manner, whether it is a GF, wife or provider.

GF/Wife = money, drama, emotional support, her family, spending time with, etc.
Provider = money, possible drama

It's just a matter of what and how much you wish to pay and for how long.

Big difference, girlfriends will ultimately want to become wives. To expand on shortblkguy above, that means less sex. . . if any.

In the hobby you pay up front to have her leave. In real life you pay on the back side, ie divorce.

There's really nothing quite like the heart warming discussion of wives and GF's on the board...

when a G/F starts asking for money it's time to find a new girlfriend.

If you don't know what the difference is between having a girlfriend and helping her out and paying an escort for her time, you're just plain fucked. Simple, one of them is with you for you, you have clicked and she finds several things abou you that you either have in common and she likes. She cares abot you as a human being and if she needs an help(being financial, emotional, or physical) and you can provide it, why the hell not?
The other is simply a business transaction, sure you go through screening to make sure you're not LE or a weirdo BUTT, you're only there because you CAN PAY to be there. Tell that one that you have no money and you get NO ACTION, plain and simple. She might get to like you over time if you're a respectful, clean, good looking guy, but that's about it. I hope this helps but, if it doesn't, explanation might be beyond the scope of this website.

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Originally Posted by Bestman200600
If you have seen her multiple times, who is to say she is not a girlfriend. Most women need financial assistance.

That is a pretty insulting indictment of all women. Kind of odd coming from one of the biggest white knights in the history of this board.



What Broes said!!!!

Spikebaby

Is there any difference between hobbying and helping a girlfriend who needs assistance. My stand answer if LE is at the door is that I am with my girlfriend and to fuck off. ...


Ok, my question is... are you fucking the girlfriend who needs assistance?? And... is she a provider? Or a Girlfriend. I'm not an idiot, but I guess I should ask these questions before posting my thoughts...

Cause if you are calling a Provider... a "gf" to make yourself feel better... like you are "special".... then I understand that. But if she is a Provider turned GF... lol... then maybe what you two have is an "understanding"... lol

Just my .02

Bestman: Hi Miss Provider, I am broke, but please come over

Miss Provider: Are you fucking crazy, I am not your girlfriend

Bestman: I thought you liked me

Miss Provider: I like your money

Bestman: Damn reality sucks, I like my fantasy world better Originally Posted by Joe Smith

LMFAO!