Question for providers

What kind of info is helpful to you when deciding on a new client? What would you like to see in a description?

Honestly? In your profile - I don't care. But when you contact me for an appt...then I do care. Having some info up front makes it all the better for when you arrive....

Hi,
My name is La Lengua.

I've seen well known provider A, B, C, and D.

Here's how to contact them. They will probably remember me as...blah blah blah that likes blah blah blah. (something specific so I'm not playing email tag with them for two weeks)

I'd like to see you on this day or this day - preferably at these times.

I'm this age, this height/size and I tend to like this "look" /style in my ladies. (pick how you want me to look when you see me...sexy, sultry, and what you dig about me or from my reviews - they tend to vary. Please don't be too specific..that scares us off).

I look forward to hearing back from you soon and blah blah blah.

You can put something funny about a post you've seen or a picture - or something about the weather or dogs - it doesn't matter.

Me personally - humor gets my attention.

But having the right info for the provider references is awesome.

Does that help?

Honestly? In your profile - I don't care. But when you contact me for an appt...then I do care. Having some info up front makes it all the better for when you arrive....

Hi,
My name is La Lengua.

I've seen well known provider A, B, C, and D.

Here's how to contact them. They will probably remember me as...blah blah blah that likes blah blah blah. (something specific so I'm not playing email tag with them for two weeks)

I'd like to see you on this day or this day - preferably at these times.

I'm this age, this height/size and I tend to like this "look" /style in my ladies. (pick how you want me to look when you see me...sexy, sultry, and what you dig about me or from my reviews - they tend to vary. Please don't be too specific..that scares us off).

I look forward to hearing back from you soon and blah blah blah.

You can put something funny about a post you've seen or a picture - or something about the weather or dogs - it doesn't matter.

Me personally - humor gets my attention.

But having the right info for the provider references is awesome.

Does that help? Originally Posted by tntangie

Angie,
This should be stickied! Bravo, girl!

Yes. Like Angie, I require showcase links for at least TWO verified providers. BP is unacceptable to me. I refuse to look up showcases of "NIKKI" (example) when there are 50 more in Dallas area. You send me the link of the lady you are referring to. She must be verified with reviews themselves.

As far as the info: You should provide info on how she will remember you specifically. Did you bring her wine? Did you meet at a bar? Did she ask you to bring her a drink or chocolates? Did you spill something at her incall? Did you talk about her favorite football team? As providers, we see alot of gentleman. Please don't expect us to remember you by your handle alone. Start giving yourself a password with each provider. I have one gentleman that I know as "football" and one that I know as "collarbone". When a lady calls for a reference with him... she will tell me..."he said to tell you "collarbone". Then, I know exactly who she is referring to as that is an inside joke between him and I.

This all needs to be included in the FIRST email of interest to me. This saves time and energy on both parties. Then, I have all of my ducks in a row when I contact the provider. So basically, within 5 emails, I should be able to set with you personally.

1. Yours with details
2. Mine to you to say that I'm verifying you with the ladies.
3. To the ladies themselves with your info you provided me.
4. A "Thank you to the ladies" for getting back to me.
5. An email to you saying "You're verified and ready to schedule... please call me at..." to arrange a time.

Basically.

Angie,
This should be stickied!! Originally Posted by Lana Warren

A lot of things need to be stckied.

Excellent question, Lengua....and really glad the ladies chimed in, too. Thank you both, Tntangie & Amber Rain, for your insightful suggestions. This will / should help everyone who's wondered the same thing....I know I picked up a few ideas as to how to polish up my own profile when contacting a new provider.

When I was heavily active into the hobby on A_PD from 2000-2006 my request to visit a lady looked something like this;

my name, my e-mail, my telephone #, my DL #, my p411 handle, requested appointment date & time, and a minimum of 3 or 4 providers I had recently visited.

The ladies I recently visited information looked simular to below,

Providers name, her e-mail, her contact telephone # if she allowed me to give it out, & her P411 information. There's 3 if not 4 diffrent methods to verify me....

If not the same day usually within 24 hours I was verified & ready to book an appointment with a lady...

Use common sense, the easier you make it for the provider to verify your information & references usually leads to a faster response time in booking your request.

Another thing I learned early on was spend that extra $75.00-$100.00 and visit a lady who provides 5 star service & has stellar reviews. I know everyone is budgeting and I was too in the begining, that cost me some bad experiences and writing some negative reviews... It only took me 3 or 4 bad experiences before I bucked up and spent that extra $75.00-$100.00 & that beautiful lady told me this; Quality is remembered long after price has been forgotten. She was right!

Excellent question, Lengua....and really glad the ladies chimed in, too. Thank you both, Tntangie & Amber Rain, for your insightful suggestions. This will / should help everyone who's wondered the same thing....I know I picked up a few ideas as to how to polish up my own profile when contacting a new provider. Originally Posted by Chateau Becot

I appreciate anyone who is willing to listen, take notes, and try to provide what we need and ask. I love when most guys look at this in appreciation to my screening rather than it being considered a hassle. It's just easier to provide all info needed in ONE email rather than go back and forth between you and I... the provider needing more info from you... me having to get back to you.. you trying to respond back to me.. and then her and I responding again to each other.. and THEN BACK TO YOU. That is normally a 24 to 48 hour process. So, I try to just make as quick and simple as possible for ALL parties involved by requesting needed info upon first email of interest to me. Just a quicker type of response time and get's you where you want to be quicker. HEHEHE.

Good luck to everyone. Hobby safe.

If I ever book with Angie, I promise she will get stickied. It does just wash off with a little soap though or she could use it for hair gel like Mary.
I primarily book through P411 and all the information these ladies need are on our account. Names, numbers, reviews,websites, etc...plus it gives you a place to talk about what you want, what you look like, and how,you want her to open the front door while greeting me.

This is great, thanks. I finally have a little bit of experience so I could include provider names. Any advice for the noob? Getting started is a little challenging and I made a few missteps. I found P411 and ECCIE to be very helpful and still do.

I love when a guy takes the time to fill out the bio portion of his p411. Any information that will help tailor the session to your preferences, I like to see. Lingerie, attire, refreshment, or other types of specific preferences, are all extremely helpful. Throw in some humor and I am smitten!

The more info, the better! Happy hobbying!

I have to say that i 100% agree with what TNT and Amber Rain stated. This information helps soooooo much. I also agree with Danni fill out the P-411 profile. I like to know how I can cater to you and that helps alot.

Great Job TNT , Amber and Danni !

What kind of info is helpful to you when deciding on a new client? What would you like to see in a description? Originally Posted by La Lengua

How to Email a Provider

To: xxxxxxxx@yahoo.com
From: xxxxxxxx@yahoo.com
subject: Would like to see you sometime..

Hey provider name,

I saw your ad on ECCIE. The review So-and-So did was great. I spend a lot of time in the North Dallas area and noticed you do , too!
I go by XXXXXXX on ECCIE, but you can call me XXXX.

I will have some time available this week if you would like to get together. I am a gentleman as the references I have included below will verify. I am a homebuilder here in the DFW area, so my schedule during the day is sometimes flexible. I stay fairly fit, but could lose about 15 lbs or so, but being 50, it ain't as easy as it was when I was twenty-something. Initially, I would like to schedule a 1 hour appointment with you. (Maybe more in the future if we "click").

Thursday or Friday late afternoon works best for me. Does that work for you?

I read your website and I have provided the information you require so you can check my references. Let me know if there is anything I have left out or you can't make contact with some of the other "friends" I have made.

My cell is 972-XXX-1212. It is safe to call during the day, but I turn it off at night when I go home.

I look forward to hearing from you soon so we can have some fun together.

Regards,

XXXXXXX


My screening info:

Real name: XXXXXX XXXXXXXX
ECCIE handle: XXXXXXXXX
email address: XXXXXXXX@yahoo.com
My cell: 972-XXX-1212

References:

Sexy Provider 1: xxxxxxxxxx@yahoo.com
(cell phone not public information)

Sweet Provider 2: xxxxxxxxx@aol.com
phone: 214-XXX-XXXX

My preferred411 ID is: Jaime-19-C-XXXX

Hope this helps you,
CG

BUT SHOULD STILL INCLUDE THE FOLLOWING IN MESSAGE AS WELL IF THEY GENTLEMAN DOES NOT HAVE P411..

How to Email a Provider


My screening info:

Real name: XXXXXX XXXXXXXX
ECCIE handle: XXXXXXXXX
email address: XXXXXXXX@yahoo.com
My cell: 972-XXX-1212

References:

Sexy Provider 1: xxxxxxxxxx@yahoo.com
(cell phone not public information) She will remember me by talking about the football game she was betting on that weekend for 100 bucks or so.

Sweet Provider 2: xxxxxxxxx@aol.com
phone: 214-XXX-XXXX She will remember me because she asked me to bring her a purple gatorade because she was out at home or she wanted me to bring her some taco bell while on the way to her incall.

My preferred411 ID is: Jaime-19-C-XXXX (if they don't have p411... the above info is always helpful to screen quicker) NOT all want to do the p411 screening process. But still need to realize how many gentlemen ladies see thru the months. Just don't believe that she will remember you by your handle or just your name or phone number. Plus adding the specifics will allow me as a provider to call the said provider to say... "Do you remember so and so?" He said, "You asked him to bring you something to drink. What was it?" Then, she can say, "Oh yes, I asked to bring me a gatorade." Hence, letting me know that both stories MATCH and she's not just giving me the brush off saying she remembers him when she really may not. Just a way to check the provider's references as well as the hobbyist.

Hope this helps you,
CG Originally Posted by Copierguy0

BUT SHOULD STILL INCLUDE THE FOLLOWING IN MESSAGE AS WELL IF THEY GENTLEMAN DOES NOT HAVE P411.. Originally Posted by Amber Rain

Now it is very clear how to Email a provider but,

If the client & Provider has P411 and his Profile is completely filled out, with a detailed BIO, ALL the info that you ask for is already there, Including the OK's that are linked to her Profile, except HOW SHE REMEMBERS ME? Right? So, to make everything readily accessible to the provider all that needs to be done is, adding how each OK remembers you to the clients BIO? (you would think, since SHE gave the OK, thats the MATCH you seek) Just looking for the perfect way to put everything in one place!!!

CG