What does gfe mean in your words ?

Some guy asked me if gfe involved a BBJ . I don't do bb anything that's just unsafe to me but I don't knock ya if you do it just not for me. But he gets mad talking bout that's not gfe then. So someone please explain .?

I don't know why anyone would want bb anything from anyone they don't even know .

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Or you could search and dispense with the drama...oops, too late...

Definitions vary from hobbyist to hobbyist and provider to provider. With the memory of an extraordinary GFE this afternoon very fresh in my mind, I'll give you my definition: A GFE is an experience with a woman during and after which you could very easily believe that it would have occurred even if you hadn't brought a donation. For me, such an experience cannot include a CBJ.

Pracitioners and aficionados of BBJ fall into two categories: the naive, and those who have thought at least a little about the risks involved, including who the partner is, weighed them, and decided that they are minuscule.

Easy! Being in the moment! Passionate, considerate, sexy, intimate, inviting, welcoming, accepting, respectful. Making the guy your "boyfriend" for whatever time he is there. Having the skills to make a connection beyond just the physical. That would be my definition.


Side note: What it does NOT mean is unsafe. Read before where a "real gf doesn't use a condom". Imho gfe does not mean condom free whether fs or bj. Everyone has their comfort levels regarding safety, from bare everything to covered everything - doesn't change the style of the lady's service.

Some guy asked me if gfe involved a BBJ . I don't do bb anything that's just unsafe to me but I don't knock ya if you do it just not for me. But he gets mad talking bout that's not gfe then. So someone please explain .?

I don't know why anyone would want bb anything from anyone they don't even know . Originally Posted by bigbooty9964

From the two reviews thus far posted on you, you're not even in the GFE ballpark, my dear.

As for exact definitions or menu options needed to qualify as GFE, there's no consensus, but I am certain that the vast, vast, VAST majority of hobbyists would require passionate kissing, daty, and bbbj. Among those 3, kissing is the most indispensable, imo, and I personally have accepted one provider as GFE even though she insisted on covered oral because she was such a great kisser. Kissing can make up for a lot, if it's THAT good (but it's gotta be Reese's Pieces good -- and that's REALLY good -- if you're deficient in other areas). Most guys, however, won't budge on the bbbj. But that's just the threshold. Beyond that, I'd simply refer you back to THN's post where she does a fine job describing the attitude and atmosphere that is also required to qualify as a GFE provider in good standing with the American Fucktard Association (Greater Dallas/Fort Worth chapter). +1 to all that.

In this market, you gotta be GFE or be unique (or very close to unique -- see Aliesha or JessicaB2B who would be unique if they didn't operate in the same market) in some other way to have a chance, imho. The bar is set VERY high 'round here. There are other options (backpage, eros, and the like), of course, where the bar may be considerably lower and the risk level considerably higher, but that's what it takes to be an Eccie star.

Some guy asked me if gfe involved a BBJ . I don't do bb anything that's just unsafe to me but I don't knock ya if you do it just not for me. But he gets mad talking bout that's not gfe then. So someone please explain .?

I don't know why anyone would want bb anything from anyone they don't even know . Originally Posted by bigbooty9964

Ok for the record bigbooty9964 you are referring to our exchange and let me get this straight- this site is full of GFE ladies and I have reviewed many of them. Your last review by 8701 is one I trusted because he's a good hobby friend of mine whose reviews I trust.
I reviewed your site and sent you a polite email about your service(s) since both reviews mentioned activities that to most are non-gfe. You responded back that you were GFE- I have been in this situation before in the early part of my hobbying days when a provider would advertise that she is GFE and when the session starts it's CBJ, No DATY, No LFK or DFK- that in my book is misleading and not GFE.
I then ask you if your definition of GFE included BBBJ, LFK, DATY etc and your reply was " I don't do anything uncovered(your words paraphrased)- I simply stated that's not GFE in my book and thanked you for replying.
I didn't wish you any bad business or call you out your name- so for you to say I got "MAD" was a LIE on your behalf. I didn't get MAD I have no reason to get MAD- I simply move on and you have every right to decline any kind of services you don't feel comfortable with and I can decline to see any female that are not providing GFE services I am seeking. However, please don't go overboard and say I was MAD- did I send you a message back in all CAPS? NO! Were you at my home and witness me trash my home office in a mad man's rage? NO!

And just 2 put my 2 cents GFE in my book is simple breaking down the acronym: Girl Friend Experience: In which a guy is seeking services(excluding BBFS) from a provider that he would perceive as if it was his own girlfriend. I can safely speak for myself and perhaps many others that 99.9% of the time in a true boyfriend/girlfriend relationship- the GF is not reaching for a condom to give her BF a BJ- I just don't think that happens!
By the time this thread is closed or gathers enough responses I will assure you that most men based on your personal statement would not classify you as GFE- not even close, but again you have 2 Yes reviews one of the guys is a good hobby friend me and both reviewers enjoyed your services albeit non-gfe but it's cool.

I would agree that you can't claim to be GFE if you aren't willing to at least LFK. Girlfriends do tend to kiss. Unless they are pissed at you.

I suppose a lady could offer PGFE??? But I don't know too many doods who would wanna pay for a pissed off girlfriend experience.

Oh we'll if that's what gfe means then no I'm clean so if you want someone who doesn't screw anything w/o a condom then so be it . I know I'm an escort but I care about the risks to much to do that. But thanks for all of you guys comments I did ask for your meanings and I respect what everyone said and does . I'm just not gfe then .(:

I would agree that you can't claim to be GFE if you aren't willing to at least LFK. Girlfriends do tend to kiss. Unless they are pissed at you.

I suppose a lady could offer PGFE??? But I don't know too many doods who would wanna pay for a pissed off girlfriend experience. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

I agree and now I just discovered she doesn't even kiss- now to the OP- I truly wish you the best of luck on this site- I don't know you personally, but do you see the problems that would have arisen had I took your word at face value when you mention you were GFE.
If I or any hobbyist came to your incall for a session that you told the hobbyist would be GFE and we paid you our good money and than all of sudden you say :"oh there's no kissing and the BJ's are covered.." how do you think the hobbyist will feel? I will tell you that would feel like they got scammed or lied too.
I think you should re-consider claiming you are GFE- because by Eccie standards you aren't- doesn't mean that there isn't opportunity here for you because some guys could cae less about GFE/Non GFE but you do have your share of guys who if they are paying XYZ they are assuming XYZ services will be offered and especially if you are advertising on your site that you are GFE.

Ok for the record bigbooty9964 you are referring to our exchange and let me get this straight- this site is full of GFE ladies and I have reviewed many of them. Your last review by 8701 is one I trusted because he's a good hobby friend of mine whose reviews I trust.
I reviewed your site and sent you a polite email about your service(s) since both reviews mentioned activities that to most are non-gfe. You responded back that you were GFE- I have been in this situation before in the early part of my hobbying days when a provider would advertise that she is GFE and when the session starts it's CBJ, No DATY, No LFK or DFK- that in my book is misleading and not GFE.
I then ask you if your definition of GFE included BBBJ, LFK, DATY etc and your reply was " I don't do anything uncovered(your words paraphrased)- I simply stated that's not GFE in my book and thanked you for replying.
I didn't wish you any bad business or call you out your name- so for you to say I got "MAD" was a LIE on your behalf. I didn't get MAD I have no reason to get MAD- I simply move on and you have every right to decline any kind of services you don't feel comfortable with and I can decline to see any female that are not providing GFE services I am seeking. However, please don't go overboard and say I was MAD- did I send you a message back in all CAPS? NO! Were you at my home and witness me trash my home office in a mad man's rage? NO!

And just 2 put my 2 cents GFE in my book is simple breaking down the acronym: Girl Friend Experience: In which a guy is seeking services(excluding BBFS) from a provider that he would perceive as if it was his own girlfriend. I can safely speak for myself and perhaps many others that 99.9% of the time in a true boyfriend/girlfriend relationship- the GF is not reaching for a condom to give her BF a BJ- I just don't think that happens!
By the time this thread is closed or gathers enough responses I will assure you that most men based on your personal statement would not classify you as GFE- not even close, but again you have 2 Yes reviews one of the guys is a good hobby friend me and both reviewers enjoyed your services albeit non-gfe but it's cool. Originally Posted by wellendowed1911

Are opinions vary . It's okay I'm not trying to start an argue end just trying to figure out how the eccie users do things. Everywhere is different

Oh we'll if that's what gfe means then no I'm clean so if you want someone who doesn't screw anything w/o a condom then so be it . I know I'm an escort but I care about the risks to much to do that. But thanks for all of you guys comments I did ask for your meanings and I respect what everyone said and does . I'm just not gfe then .(: Originally Posted by bigbooty9964

You are most welcome- no one is perfect here- just glad you found out the true meaning or expectations of GFE before you had an encounter with someone who was expecting GFE services. Welcome again and good luck here on ECCIE and beautiful pics by the way on your site- you are one of the hottest girls on here bar none.

Thanks .! Yea not Tryna argue at all ! I love this site & the people on it . Y'all interact which is great . Have a great night (: