I am bit miffed that I even have to post this now, but it seems lately some newer to the hobby gents just don't get it.
Especially in today's current climate, it truly boggles my mind that I am as of late receiving messages from people with, shall we say, perspicuous descriptions of desired proclivities.
This is a huge red flag for me, and I am sure, many other providers. If you are looking to get yourself a very prompt one way ticket to the dns list, then please gentleman, proceed.
If however, you are genuine and genuinely wish to meet someone, then it would be behoove you to clean up your messages, keep them polite, straight forward and clandestine.