Would you hobby as much or differently if there was no posting short of reviews and ads by the ladies.

So would you hobby as much or differently if these boards only had ads and reviews. No other interaction. For me I would hobby very seldom if all it was is sending a note asking for a date and getting the " sure baby, what time" for me reviews are a small part of how I choose a lady, it is a mix of what people I respect and trust say and my own research. Usually I have already picked a lady then I look to see if my desire was correct. Flirting with the ladies makes my dating that much more enjoyable BCD.

Interacting with the ladies keeps me interested in more then just needing to have sex. I have always dated the ladies on this board that strike my interest and I enjoy the commonalities we all share. Banter and descussing what we do in wonderland. I know there are a lot of hobbyist that just hobby threw P411 and threw referrals rather then board history and presence.

I'm sure it is different for the ladies as some don't post and just place adds and have showcases, others have a strong presence, anyways just curious how it would affect your Hobbying if only a bunch of mongers were here.


IB

But the hot and young chicks don't spend time in Coed Discussion.

hmmmm maybe not everyone is seeking the hot young chicks? LOL

hmmmm maybe not everyone is seeking the hot young chicks? LOL Originally Posted by sue_nami

I'm not about to bash old unattractive "Highly Experienced" women but that comment is absolutely ludicrous in the hobby.

For the high price of an hour what monger is going to seek out old unattractive providers over hot young chicks unless there's some kind of serious granny fetish going on?

Yeah I get that many will settle based upon availability, price or newbie status but do you actually believe that statement after repeating it for so long?

I realize not every monger has the same taste but God I have a hard time imaging someone would prefer paying big bucks for those wonderful women who the average decent looking guy on the street wouldn't date for free in the civie world.

Hell we're not even talking about guys with a preference for BBW.

We're talking about old and unattractive which is a whole nother ball game..

So you're saying if you put a hot young chick with a great personality side by side with an old not so attractive provider with a great personality for the same price there are mongers who will actually select the old unattractive one?

I'm sorry but that's one glass of Koolaid I ain't drinking.

Why are older unattractive providers still in business? Simple. There's no shortage of newbies who need references, have a limited budget or can't get a response from the one's they want.

Just to prove that there r at least sum that post here... 💋😉💋😄💋

And even if u don't appreciate a lil vintage every now and again doesn't mean they r less hot, hun.

As the old adage goes, ur trash is my treasure. 😘

Just to prove that there r at least sum that post here... ����������

And even if u don't appreciate a lil vintage every now and again doesn't mean they r less hot, hun.

As the old adage goes, ur trash is my treasure. �� Originally Posted by Ginger08

I am not exaggerating when I say damn near everyday i hear from a client that the guys are glad there is a 55 year old woman who is available now. often men of many different ages say they have no interest in younger women. why is this so hard to fathom that people actually have preferences and like choices and often they are not the same as yours? some like steak and some like lobster and some like organic vegetarian chili. no one likes the same selections about anything. even if you're a steak fella, those lobster fellas are quite happy with their choice as well. what good does it do to disparage the other options on the menu. I have been doing this full time for 3 years and the majority of my clients are regulars. so much for your theory of newbies needing a reference to explain why I am so busy all the time. There is something to be said for experience and maturity and certainly something to be said for young hot beautiful women. I love them too, do not get me wrong. I love strange too when it comes to women. I get it. All I ask is do not think there is something less than desirable about a mature provider just because it is not what flips your trigger. Everyone likes something unique on the menu and they can find it here.

Alright back to the topic. Feel free to start a thread on the hot chick provider vs. older chick provider.


To answer the OP's question,I wouldn't hobby any different if this board was only reviews and ads. When I first started on ASPD, I lived with the ex-wife and could only get on the site sporadically. I based my decisions on reviews. Hell, I didn't even know about the ROS section!!!

When we separated, I learned what else the site offered. However, for over a year plus, I only knew about and used the reviews and ads to hobby.

sixx

I used ASPD for 5 years before I even posted 1999-2004.....I only used Reviews sans BCD and their ads.. I was successful 85% of the time.. However I was also a big Escape/Amazing Escorts fan,.. never had any issues them..

I tried to see the Providers that had consistent 'yes' reviews...

The board would look much like TER.

I think the threads let me know who I want to avoid at times.
The reviews are good for the guys to know what we are like BCD, but other threads give us some insight into who he is as well. Plus the infoshare lets us know who is dangerous, ncns, or guys to watch out for.
Although I do like P411 because there is no drama there.