Little things

Question for the providers out there. What are some things that a new client can do to make a session go really well? I think that there are the basics, which should never be overlooked, include hygiene, manners, promptness, common courtesy, and not being a dickhead. But, beyond that, what can a client do (or not do) in order to make a session go really well for both the client and provider? What sorts of things (material or otherwise) do you appreciate, and what sets one client above others? I'd appreciate your thoughts. Thanks!
Question for the providers out there. What are some things that a new client can do to make a session go really well? I think that there are the basics, which should never be overlooked, include hygiene, manners, promptness, common courtesy, and not being a dickhead. But, beyond that, what can a client do (or not do) in order to make a session go really well for both the client and provider? What sorts of things (material or otherwise) do you appreciate, and what sets one client above others? I'd appreciate your thoughts. Thanks! Originally Posted by StrokinFiend
If I may be forgiven for interjecting a negative note, so much depends on the moral character of the lady concerned. A client can extend all courtesy, offer dinner, cook dinner, bring a beautiful present and be the soul of sensitivity, and yet be mercilessly cheated and stolen from in ways that defeat all logic after conversation to soothe a lot of pain on the part of the provider.

Therefore, it might seem the more than one provider might be feeling little care for the client, no matter how long the relationship has been. Money seems to be the only element that counts, in the final analysis. I have long pondered on the nature of redemptive exchange being an arrant idiot all my life, seeking fidelity and other emotions from institutions and persons quite unwilling and unable to reciprocate.

What you are asking is how to melt someone heart by a series of material and non-material gestures that will allow her to bestow a modicum of affection and caring that would make your time together memorable. "Smoothly" has that connotation to me, the sense of being made to feel special. Some providers have that gift and are listed on many people's top five All Time Favorites. Please consult these lists and see if any of them might suit your needs. Good service merits praise and rewards. Others are by nature exceedingly dishonest; I know some and hesitate to out them because it is my word against another's livelihood.
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If I may be forgiven for interjecting a negative note, so much depends on the moral character of the lady concerned. A client can extend all courtesy, offer dinner, cook dinner, bring a beautiful present and be the soul of sensitivity, and yet be mercilessly cheated and stolen from in ways that defeat all logic after conversation to soothe a lot of pain on the part of the provider.

Therefore, it might seem the more than one provider might be feeling little care for the client, no matter how long the relationship has been. Money seems to be the only element that counts, in the final analysis. I have long pondered on the nature of redemptive exchange being an arrant idiot all my life, seeking fidelity and other emotions from institutions and persons quite unwilling and unable to reciprocate.

What you are asking is how to melt someone heart by a series of material and non-material gestures that will allow her to bestow a modicum of affection and caring that would make your time together memorable. "Smoothly" has that connotation to me, the sense of being made to feel special. Some providers have that gift and are listed on many people's top five All Time Favorites. Please consult these lists and see if any of them might suit your needs. Good service merits praise and rewards. Others are by nature exceedingly dishonest; I know some and hesitate to out them because it is my word against another's livelihood. Originally Posted by greenpeace2014
Translation = Money talks. Pay em well and the session usually goes well.
A client can extend all courtesy, offer dinner, cook dinner, bring a beautiful present and be the soul of sensitivity. Originally Posted by greenpeace2014

Translation = Money talks. Pay em well and the session usually goes well. Originally Posted by wantsome
You are so right. One thing i discovered to my dismay. Never tip in advance, hoping to make providers happy; You create Soviet Russia in a bubble. They either don't feel the need to "work" any more, or even find the need to rush out to see a friend who is having a "terrible personal tragedy" right that moment. The Greeks invented tragedy and theater specifically for such ladies. The third is too icky, you know, -ics, and all that!
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In my opinion to make a memorable visit be a gentleman be polite and respectful . Be intelligent enough to carry a conversation . And be clean ! The money is secondary for me . Hope this helps
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but ya got to use them fast

I think I just trashed a few with the title

offshoredrilling, chain smoker and pet lover( pet lover is just to score brownie points )
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If the taint is treated well, the session will go well.
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Tossing in my two cents here. The first time with a provider has many variables that affect how things go. IMHO, when you see a provider a couple of times, service improves.
IMHO, when you see a provider a couple of times, service improves. Originally Posted by tigerjedi69
Hmmm... I'm thinking JB may disagree....

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who me? lol

what i do now?
pyramider's Avatar
I thinck he called you a little thing.
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oh. well hes very perceptive