"It's not what's between your legs that defines your gender."

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Classic Buck Angel. Someone that I would like to meet. (My list is starting to get long!)

buckangel.com

Interesting site. Interesting man.

Elisabeth
As you know, I was born female and lived many years as such. I would say I was not really "feminine" but more on the tomboy/butch side....Buck Angel

What He's a she? I just looked up the website....was wondering why you found him so interesting then I found that...WOW
I need to check this out more, very interesting...
I need a Video or two to really undestand!! thanks!!!

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laeya,

I just find the whole "gender bender" thing to be interesting ... and it appeals to me. I still want to have sex with a trannie. I'm sorry, the thought of a girl raising her dress and shazam, just seems like it would be awesome.

But sadly, TS's generally don't like women that much. At least that is what I've heard and my general knowledge on the subject. Would anyone like to chime in on that?

With Buck Angel, I find the body to be very attractive. Again, it's the difference that I find so ... just different. Also, in the few pictures that I saw, his kissing style was very masculine looking. Not feminine at all.

Women kiss so differently than men do.

Please help me get my foot out of my mouth now. Anyone?

Elisabeth
Shazam!!
I had a girlfriend that was dating a guy with a foot fetish. She said that his ultimate fantasy was to have a male cross dresser walk on him barefoot.
Not sure if he liked big feet or wanted to see a bulge in the dress. Since he wanted to be walked on, I assume that he wanted to be dominated.
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interesting topic and something i have a little insight about. i have to say from the start that i haven't looked yet at the referenced website and by no means am i an expert on the subject.

i am a transvestite and not a transsexual. a ts, generally, is wired genetically like a female, but has a male body. they basically feel like a female trapped in a male body. most end up eventually having surgery to become female. of course, the opposite can happen too---a male trapped in a female body---but since i'm male, i will just focus on male to female. since they are wired as females, most are going to be attracted to men.

as a tv, i've never thought that i'm a female born into a male body. if circumstances had been different and the universe had decided that i was to be born a female, i can honestly say i would have no problem with that. i just have a part of my psyche that thoroughly enjoys being female, and dressing as such at times. speaking only for myself, i am attracted to women as both a male and female. i do have bisexual urges when i'm in my femme mode. as a male, i have no physical/sexual attraction to males at all. also, as a tv, my public life is lived as a male. i don't have breasts or long hair. my main modification is just keep my body shaved smooth every day, painted toenails, etc. since i'm a runner, my friends who don't know i'm a tv, don't question my shaved legs. i mainly dress femme just in the privacy of my house. i used to question why i have the urge to be femme as part of my life, but now i embrace it as a fun and interesting variation. i think it makes me a more well-rounded person because i can relate to both males and females.

sorry for rambling---hopefully, i've answered some questions that some might have. if anyone ever wants to ask me more specific personal questons, i'm pretty much an open-book---so feel free to pm me.
I know several TS that like women as well as men. One is absolutely so feminine that the first time I met her/him (public social function with around 30 people) I was completely fooled until she spoke to me. She had not had any vocal cord work done and her voice was as deep as mine. I was totally shocked because in a bar I would totally have tried to pick her up based on her look. Boy would I have been surprised!!
But sadly, TS's generally don't like women that much. At least that is what I've heard and my general knowledge on the subject. Would anyone like to chime in on that?Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers
I know a few gorgeous TS's that like women too. The poblem is finding a provider that would love to participate in a 3-way with one. Heck, I'd just love to be the third wheel too. Just another one of my fantasies, one day hopefully, I can live it out.

Trooper H
Crossdressers typically are more heterosexual than a transgendered person. For many TS, they want to be women, and hence they find they are attracted towards men as a "real" woman would be.

It's a very complicated sexual arena these days. Used to be you just had to hide it and everything was underground. Even the medical profession called it a deviancy that needed to be fixed.
I had my first session, fmf, in which the male was crossed dressed during the session. Let me elaborate, I have done crossdressing sessions, but did not have intercourse with the crossdresser. Before this session, I never would have thought that would arouse me sexually. It did. It was awesome to see this heterosexual male dressed in a corset and stockings and still be sexually aroused. The whole thing was tabboo. Maybe that was why it aroused me sexually? Of course you really can't go wrong with the fmf thing to begin with! Him dressing up just added a whole new dimension.
Before I met Missi, I was ignorant to what tv and transgender was all about. It is still perplexing to me. BUT the short version....Who gives a shit what you are as long as you are having fun and not hurting anyone. Even if you don't understand it. Thats my take on it.
What's amazing to me is how some "true" homosexual/lesbian individuals treat transpeople, including bisexuals.

I've seen lesbians tear into bisexual women, telling them to "choose a side".

Uh, what?

Why cant I, as a bisexual woman, have been born bisexual in the same way that homosexual men or lesbians are born that way?

I agree with Britney
Who gives a shit what you are as long as you are having fun and not hurting anyone.
The opening scene of To Wong Foo Thanks for Everything, Julie Newmar turned me on when I saw it as a teenager. It's a great movie. A Patrick Swazey fav of mine.

I had my first session, fmf, in which the male was crossed dressed during the session. Let me elaborate, I have done crossdressing sessions, but did not have intercourse with the crossdresser. Before this session, I never would have thought that would arouse me sexually. It did. It was awesome to see this heterosexual male dressed in a corset and stockings and still be sexually aroused. The whole thing was tabboo. Maybe that was why it aroused me sexually? Of course you really can't go wrong with the fmf thing to begin with! Him dressing up just added a whole new dimension. Originally Posted by BritneyBangs
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I know a few gorgeous TS's that like women too. The poblem is finding a provider that would love to participate in a 3-way with one. Heck, I'd just love to be the third wheel too. Just another one of my fantasies, one day hopefully, I can live it out.

Trooper H Originally Posted by Trooper Hawk

Im sure this post is old by now but im sure most know iam the only austin TS that will work with other ladie providers i do have a full meu and enjoy what i do.
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Sure. The post is a little old but here in 'Another Realm', we tend to bend the rules a little bit.

You are absolutely LOVELY! And welcome!!!

It's good information to know that you're in Austin and are willing to work with other escorts. Thanks!

Sincerely,
Elisabeth
I agree with EW!

Josie... Damn, you look wonderful and who gives a damn what you came with, you have made it your own....

I would see you...

PPE