ATF vs Variety... What Say You?

I know there are pros and cons regarding both of them. Some prefer ATF because of a connection, perks (cut ahead of the line), convenience (location) and other reasons he enjoy his ATF...Others like the thrill of chasing and gotta have a variety to keep his interest...and that's cool if that's your thing....

So what say you????? Pros and Cons of ATF vs Variety???

ATF. I'm a serial monogomist when I find a lady I like and she lik....uuum "tolerates" me. I'll stick with her. However it does suck when they retire/disappear and the hunt for a new ATF begins.

Variety is the spice if life, and who doesn't like their fun spicy?!


In all seriousness, though, I haven't been around long enough to give the pros and cons. I think finding a favorite early is tough, so you need the variety until you find what/who you like and click with. However, why can't you have a variety of favorites? I've got several categories with several women in each that I'd love to find a favorite in (not to say their cant be crossovers): alt, wholesome, freaky, intellectual, nerd, fbsm/LMT. Or better yet, have an ATF that can be them all!

I like variety but there are a few that I love to see on a regular.

How about variety with your ATF?

Spice it up.. "Can you meet at 5 on Tuesday? I found this awesome whole in the wall motel down route 35." "Can we meet at the bar? You walk up to me sitting at the bar stool and pick up my tab and shout, "he's leaving with me!"
When you get the comfort level of knowing someone is reliable and what their limits are and etc, it's easy to keep it fresh.
Xx

How about variety with your ATF?

Spice it up.. "Can you meet at 5 on Tuesday? I found this awesome whole in the wall motel down route 35." "Can we meet at the bar? You walk up to me sitting at the bar stool and pick up my tab and shout, "he's leaving with me!"
When you get the comfort level of knowing someone is reliable and what their limits are and etc, it's easy to keep it fresh.
Xx Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

Best option IMO.

The variety of different girls is great, but unless you have multiple ATFs, then it will be a shot in the dark of if you are going to get a fantastic experience. Your same ATF can be a different girl, as most providers generally will have the acting/role playing skills and she is your ATF because her skills are the best in your opinion or should would not be your ATF.

Cheating on the ATF...hot...especially when she joins you in a 3-way.

How about variety with your ATF?

Spice it up.. "Can you meet at 5 on Tuesday? I found this awesome whole in the wall motel down route 35." "Can we meet at the bar? You walk up to me sitting at the bar stool and pick up my tab and shout, "he's leaving with me!"
When you get the comfort level of knowing someone is reliable and what their limits are and etc, it's easy to keep it fresh.
Xx Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

Boo on that BS, new pussy is the best pussy

ATF. I'm a serial monogomist when I find a lady I like and she lik....uuum "tolerates" me. I'll stick with her. However it does suck when they retire/disappear and the hunt for a new ATF begins. Originally Posted by Hercules

Ditto

ATF. But having more than one ATF makes the best of both worlds.

I know there are pros and cons regarding both of them. ...
So what say you????? Pros and Cons of ATF vs Variety??? Originally Posted by love_jones

Variety is the spice if life, and who doesn't like their fun spicy?!

... why can't you have a variety of favorites? I've got several categories with several women in each that I'd love to find a favorite in: alt, wholesome, freaky, intellectual, nerd, fbsm/LMT. Or better yet, have an ATF that can be them all! Originally Posted by FunInDFW

How about variety with your ATF?

Spice it up.. "Can you meet at 5 on Tuesday? I found this awesome whole in the wall motel down route 35."
===>pmd: you mean you know about that hole in the wall by the quarter hour no-tell motel near Dallas Zoo??? :^)
"Can we meet at the bar? You walk up to me sitting at the bar stool and pick up my tab and shout, "he's leaving with me!"

When you get the comfort level of knowing someone is reliable and what their limits are and etc, it's easy to keep it fresh.
Xx Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

^^^^^^^^^^
all of the above.
my preference is having some favs and meeting some new women who'll hopefully becum favs.

and having variety w/in my favs, like FunInDFW said - 20-somethings, 30-somethings, 40-somethings, 50-somethings. blondes, brunettes, red heads. great oral artistes, great lovers, great body rub/massagers. those close by, those a bit farther away. those with slim slim bodies those the right kind of curves in the right place.

and having favs who enjoy mixing it up - being interviewed for a sexretarial job, being lightly restrained and blindfolded to be enjoyed by me, just having a men's white shirt on and nothing else, wearing fishnet body stocking that has an open crotch, playing the housewife who is desperate for sex, wearing sweatpants and tshirt like she just came from the gym, driving in her car to a parking garage and having bbbj me tc nqns!

keeping encounters "weird", different, and strange, one deliteful encounter at a time!

I've never had an ATF, butt I had (still kinda have) a great fun regular that would bring over her hot fun GFs to show off her panties and stuff . Butt, she got married to her real GF and move to the country.
Butt, she still has that great smile and fun strys when she does have time to vizit.

Well...I can't stay loyal in the real world....and I am finding out that I cannot be loyal in the Hobby as well....LOL...

Think the moment I relocated to Dallas...I realized real quickly I could never be faithful in the city....we are too blessed with gorgeous women for the taking!!!

I'm so bad, I pulled the hot cashier's number at Ulta when I was buying some perfume for the S/O.....so...ummm....yeah....I'm ruined!!

Hands down ATF . But I always get hooked and then i get burned. I think its a two way thing. Some girls.like having several atf's guys, but none of them want a boyfriend on the board . I seem to never learn that lesson. I am going to do the atf thing anyway . Guess that makes me a serial atf'r. Having a civy gf and an eccie atf and an occasional fling keeps me occupied yet contained. Plus I can shop for only one at a time.

Just treat the ladies right and they will always come back for more :-). Butt, treat them wrong and they will come back and spank your azz :-). I've heard ouch