Non-Negotiables

Interested to hear from the guys: what are the key factors you look for? Could be physical traits, attitude, security, review history, age, menu items etc. etc.

Also what are deal breakers? Anything that would automatically exclude someone from your TDL?


And for the ladies: let's get the smart ass answer out of the way, I know money is a non-negotiable...and whatever level of screening you require...but what else? I'm sure you will overlook many of our faults to do your job but maybe if we are talking about a model client, what would you prefer they bring to the table?

what would you prefer they bring to the table?
Breath that doesn't smell like the backside of an elephant's ass
Balls that doesn't smell like the backside of a dirty earring "back"

i like some enthusiasm. doesn't have to be a perky pam, but some sense that the erotic is fun to her helps a lot.

dealing with her phone during our time is generally a killjoy. but there have been the cases when she let me in on the conversation and we had fun with it. being a co-conspirator was engaging i guess.

if she initiates some level of caressing (and not just of the manmeat) that'll make me far more inclined to come back.

and sure i don't want her to be ugly, but i think my version of a lovely woman is less demanding than lots of guys.

I am initially attracted by looks and menu, but personality and performance are probably the 2 biggest determinants for a repeat encounter. If I do not like you, why would I come back for more.

Respect. It's number one. I always give it, and I expect it in return.

Don't be an asshole. I won't put myself in a room with an asshole for any amount of money.

Genuine flattery. I love it. Say something nice to me... It'll probably make my day.

Don't let me know I'm plan B. Even if I am.

Very, very important... Good hygiene. It's not only a turn-on, it's a total necessity.

Hygiene is a must. U can take ur money n leave. I wont do nasty stank. Aint happnin capt'n. If the hooker can stay squeaky clean all the time. U can wash ur sweaty balls off real quick @ least when u get there.

Double post

If your hard to communicate with or set up a date with,I forget you.my biggest turn off is lack of concentration and being rushed. I'm pretty easy to please if you just put a little effort into it.most lawyers doctors, etc don't make 2 or 300 a hour.I toil to earn it.so if I don't get my bang for my buck forget you.

If your hard to communicate with or set up a date with,I forget you.my biggest turn off is lack of concentration and being rushed. I'm pretty easy to please if you just put a little effort into it.most lawyers doctors, etc don't make 2 or 300 a hour.I toil to earn it.so if I don't get my bang for my buck forget you. Originally Posted by peter north77

They also aren't opening their legs and fucking a stranger (literally), giving up a piece of their soul everytime they see someone...but I get what you're saying

For me the priorities go
1. Security and discretion - if I see she will screw over or disrespect others in this regard, I know she will have no problem doing it to me
2. Attitude - need someone laid back, non rushed, who doesn't make me feel like an annoyance/bother
3. Communication and scheduling - I'm an advance planner so someone respectful of that helps a lot

I have a physical "type" (who doesn't?) but my TDL has all shapes and sizes...but one thing I can't handle is dumb. If we can't communicate in person about something other than hobby drama, then I am going to get really really bored. And it really is kind of a turn off to have set aside an hour to be with a girl...and her be talking about another girl.

1. Attitude just be nice
2. Hygiene
3. Look wise i like spinners to thick
4. If you cannot show up at minimum text me

Don't waste my time. If you know you can't make an appointment just say so, I will understand. I've had two NCNS in my time on ECCIE. One was an honest mistake, the provider apologized, and we went on to have at least 10 great encounters (no need for her to "make up for it" with any kind of special deals, honesty was all I wanted). The other NCNS just tried to lie her way out of it and not accept responsibility, and so is on my DNS list.

It's all about respect. If we're both respectful, we can work out the other details.

what would you prefer they bring to the table?
Breath that doesn't smell like the backside of an elephant's ass
Balls that doesn't smell like the backside of a dirty earring "back" Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

LMAO !!! That is hilarious Danielle ....how do you come up with this stuff??? Don't tell me you know what the "backside of an elephants ass" smells like.... or maybe I should ask which elephant you're talking about.... still laughing !!!

LMAO !!! That is hilarious Danielle ....how do you come up with this stuff??? Don't tell me you know what the "backside of an elephants ass" smells like.... or maybe I should ask which elephant you're talking about.... still laughing !!! Originally Posted by gntaltouch

I know what a zoo smells like, you can smell the shit all the way down Van Buren

Looks, reviews, pictures, and communication are all important for the first date.... but if I am going to see a lady more than once, There are 2 main criteria...

1) How she made me feel... I'm looking for more than sex... I want an "experience" .... Some providers seem to have a special sense of how to make me feel special... If she seems to truly enjoy the encounter, (even if it is an act)... I will want more....

2) Intelligence.... this is actually a part of my first criteria but includes more than "how she made me feel"... for me, meaningful conversation, sense of humor and the ability to "banter" with sexual innuendo is a huge turn-on... I want to enjoy your mind as well as your body

Disclaimer: My opinion is worth exactly what you pay for it.....