Horny Housewives

This morning I found myself scouring the web for statistics on the prevalence of under satisfied, lonely housewives. All I found was porn. But I remember reading an article on the subject and the percentage of sexually frustrated women in the kitchen was surprisingly high. Men and women have rivaling libidos, but we (and not me, but others of my gender) are often more soft spoken about our raging sex drive. But why? Why are women too bashful (in general) to embrace their sexual nature? Is this how we end up here? I won't speak for others but would encourage feedback. If anyone can find related literature on the subject, I will award you with a passing grade.

http://desperatehousewivescheating.com/physical.html

Useful information possibly? May address some of your questions, but in general, it all leads to the same thing...see you soon!

Interesting read. Is this written from a male perspective? I am curious to hear the male opinions on this subject.

Qualitative research on HHWS (horny housewife syndrome) has cum a long way



While the research illuminates ideas social scientists and the plans of opportunistic hobbyists, the more critical underlying issue (the female orgasm, satisfaction) has largely been left untouched. Until this (arising from the FIC [focus on clit) Initiative):



Professor "Munch" Munsch is making inroads into academics better understanding of the critical relationship between: a) HHWS; and b) orgasm quality and frequency. Munch used cunning linguism to show that lack of quality O's is the fundamental underlying causes of two-timing, see:



Trees poses future PhD topic for those brainy among us: Longitudinal Study of Girls Named Jane Provider: How the Lack of Good Sex at Home brought Jane into the Hobby.

Collaboration is bulging in this academic arena. Milk for what its worth. For example, scientists who study "Human Happiness" seem to have discovered that the combination of great-sex-after-long-periods-of-denial, and concurrently getting paid for it when-she-would-give-it-away-free, causes significant brain activity known as euphoria.

19Trees

You "inadvertently" looked up porn huh? I think that's the perfect example of what you are talking about! You were just too bashful to admit you were horny, found some porn, and rubbed one out! So you con-cock-ted this whole story to justify watching porn!

As far as women being sexually frustrated in the kitchen. Might as well grab the shaft... Of a mop and start cleaning. Maybe that'll work out some sexual frustrations! Lol

Alright. Kidding aside. Younger women tend to not be as comfortable with their sexuality as older women. The ease in which younger women get pregnant likely makes them more hesitant to have sex, and the pressure put on them to suppress their sexuality has a lot to do with it. No one wants their daughter pregnant at a young age, so they focus on the consequences of sex. I had a friend who had surgery that left her unable to have children when she was young. After that she was much less reserved about her sexuality, and was VERY sexually active. Maybe with the risk of pregnancy gone her parents didn't pressure her as much about not having sex? Or maybe it was her own reservations being removed that opened her up? Likely a combination of the two.

From an evolutionary perspective younger women get pregnant more easily, so they do not need to have sex as often to fulfill the biological reason for sex. Older women being less likely to get pregnant need to have more sex to increase their chances of getting pregnant.

Add it all up and you get women who are reluctant to fully embrace their sexuality, at least at a young age. And even older women may still have psychological affects from their upbringing.

Maybe that is why we end up here. Right now I need anonymous, no strings attached relationships. Maybe it's the same for some providers? Does it eliminates the societal constraints put on women? Is Trees right? Does getting paid for it lead to euphoria?!? I'm curious to hear the female opinions on this!

http://www.time.com/time/magazine/ar...007422,00.html

I read an article yesterday about cunnilingus being an evolutionary hold-over for mate retention. It was rife with both conclusive errors and survey/research method errors but had some interesting commentary stemming from it re: sex for pleasure vs purpose

Linked to that article was another discussing swapping/swinging as an emerging cultural practice. The stats showed that people who swing are generally in their early-mid forties. I'm going to guess that unlike Johnyrod's theory of fertility and sexuality, it is more likely a function of maturity, comfort with one's body, and boredom with your significant other. AND wanting to be validated physically as your body changes.

There's no doubt that biological clocks and urges influence our sexuality, but I think horny housewife syndrome is nearly entirely boredom and loneliness. Here's another example; take the biological age and financial security out of the equation, imagine the young wives of deployed soldiers who get visited by a Jody; they do it cause their lonely for emotional and physical connection.

As for great sex after long periods of denial...sounds like married-sex to me. I'm 10 years into my sentence, and the sex is so mechanical and boring, with no IOP, that I have turned to the hobby; and I thank God everyday for it!

Trees, enjoyed the reads my friend!

Belle, texted and emailed you a couple of times over the last week... radio silence... was hoping to catch you for lunch.

I have read a lot of literature on this subject, and most of it seems to dance around this issue: women are horny and need reprieve. We feel oppressed sexually and seek avenues to release pent up or excess sexual tension. Whether it is cheating or providing or masturbating with the shower head, I think there is a movement happening. (A few movements perhaps).

Providers find this avenue (the hobby) as one escape route. There are countless reasons that drive women into sex work and I won't try to decode them all. In my case, I am drawn to the secrecy and the sociological component that embodies this "hobby", most specifically found in this forum. I am also promiscuous and coy and openly aggressive with my sexual nature so it is not shocking that I would end up here. There is always a culmination of tiny reasons that create such a decision. Some are driven by money, others by success, it would be difficult (and presumptuous) to lay a blanket reason over each case scenario.

I would be interested in hearing the stories of others. I will start.
I was in college the first time I had sex and it was awful. So I didn't do it again for a long time. I was in my early twenties before I really understood that I had boobs and a nice figure, and a few years after that I understood their power over men. I was (and still am) a kid with their first sports car. I am probably cocky and a little high on the power but hey, with power comes fun Intimacy in my personal life isn't nearly as exhilarating as it can be in settings such as this. So there you have it.

Wheels, I was out for the 4th and I haven't responded to anyone lunch soon, I'm just not sure when!

Are you interested in why men get into the "hobby" - such a silly name.

I am interested!

After watching half my wealth walk out the door twice, I decided I would rather make the deal up front - lol -much better deal!

That is a good reason!

I think the entire cycle of this world is alluring. Even from the first email, the flirtation is intriguing. I love having a secret, I love dressing up and I like to kiss strangers :wink:

Women shouldn't be afraid to embrace their feminine qualities. They also shouldn't be afraid to use them to their advantage. Men use power, so should we. And in this scenario, everyone wins!

Belle

My reasoning for Hobbying is that since I am not currently in a relationship i still want intimacy with a woman and that just aint going to happen 9 times out of ten on first date. This is why i particularly like providers who give full gfe experience. I have been Hobbying off and on for 5 years and only when I am not in a commuted relationship. I know its different for every man.

Hobbying off and on for 5 years and only when I am not in a commuted relationship. Originally Posted by jackdanielscowboy

My committed relationships has been commuted, so I guess I'm good to hobby!

if women "hobby" ie sport fuck ( we don't have to pay for it) we are labeled slut by society and judged for it unlike men where it is consider normal behavior.