More discretion???

Hi, I’m Sonara.

I want to ask y’all a question !

Do guys think a hotel is more discreet then going to a providers apartment?
While I am back home I use a private incall to host. I think it’s more discreet to have a place that isn’t a hotel. I have also lost some clients who would rather me host at a hotel. I’m just curious others take on this subject. Which feels safest for the hobbyist ? I’m going to start frequenting Overland Park again & am thinking about a private location.

I wont visit a hotel. Private location inly fir me. No doubt some guys prefer hotels, but just not for me. Too visible, too unexplainable, etc, etc

Prefer private location.

Apartment is probably the best. Private home always feels obvious since there is likely enough traffic for people to easily figure out what is going on. Hotels can be ok, depends a lot on the hotel choice. Most of the time the choice isn't great.

Depends on the quality and location of the neighborhood.

I've been to both but an apartment complex is by far the least obvious in my opinion. People are coming and going all hours so less people would notice. No knocking, just leave door ajar or be watching. Going to a neighborhood with sngle dwelling homes or even duplexes is rough. I always feel like I stick out like a sore thumb. Seems the neighbors are more nosy there, especially homeowners. Granted the walls of apartments can be pretty thin, but that's my choice by far.

I agree with K3nfvn. I prefer an apartment complex. No a fan of hotels. I have been to visit some providers at private residences and and it has been ok. I have also visited a couple that the neighbors were watching the comings and goings from the house. If you are wanting to blend in and not garner attention, I think an apartment is the best bet

My ATF when I lived in DC worked out of a large condo complex (once was apartments). Her and another lady I never met shared it. It was always neat and clean, and as both were low volume they didn't attract any attention. I loved that little "love nest" (her words).

However, the friend moved and Crystal couldn't afford it on her own, so we started using hotels. I would reserve the room and we would just walk in like we were regular guests. Nobody cared.

I prefer private incalls, but hotels do not bother me. In a larger hotel, it's pretty usual for a lot of traffic to move through. You and the lady just have to be discreet in the hallway.

Thread reminds me of the Naughty Hotties, who used to do threesomes in KC area. They had me meet them in a Wal Mart parking lot, lie down in the back if their SUV, and only sit up and get out after arriving in the garage of their condo. This was their way of using their home without attracting attention. Weird but effective.

Albus, I think most of us would be worried we were about to be robbed or murdered if asked to do that!

Apartments are best. Just like it was said above. People don't notice much. They don't do the yard work, so they aren't outside much.
Single family homes would work, if you had a driveway that went to the rear. Privacy fence hiding the back yard.
Hotels are okay if the girl gets the room. I hate to get a room for the night and only need it for an hour. Depending on the hour of the visit, staff might be too busy to notice much.

Iabadel, at the time they were well known providers. This was probably around 2005...not really that long ago, but the hobby had a distinctly different "vibe" back then. The Naughty Hotties were genuine "call girls", and I didn't for a second worry about them robbing me...and this comes from a guy who's been robbed before. Its hard to explain, but they were too "high dollar" and reliant on their reputation to rob anyone. Now we have reports of robberies and it does seem to phase people, and people continue to see known robbers...so not nearly as much to lose these days.

My drive sits on the side of the house, I use the garage & have pretty much laid out a reason to have traffick. So far all is well.

I don't mind a motel: where you can walk directly into the room from outdoors instead of going through a lobby and down a hallway. Most Motel 6's are set up this way, and a lot of no-tell motel type places. I don't mind a Hotel, if it's a larger, busier and nicer hotel, but that is almost never the situation.

I would prefer a private residence or Apartment to most hotels. It does seem more discreet. But, it does depend on the location and the neighborhood.

I prefer private location to MOST hotels.