The Men Who Come to Watch...

I want to preface this post by saying that I'm asking the following question out of curiosity and not judgement. With that said, I recently met with a provider who mentioned that a large number of her clients pay serious cash to watch her masturbate, and that's it. They refuse to engage in any other act nor do they want to be touched. She mentioned for an hour, they sit in their respective corner and watch. They themselves do not masturbate...they just observe. I'm trying to understand the logic...maybe they are getting warmed up to see someone else?

Have any providers experienced this before? Would you be comfortable with this type of request?
Ms. Athena's Avatar
Live Porn, stimulates all the senses...........
I have a "thing" when it comes to watching a man Masturbate, it is one of the sexiest things ever to me. I guess I can understand the logic.

Can't explain it...but I for sure understand it.
DallasRain's Avatar
I love masturbation---especially mutual masturbation during a session!
I think a lot of people (men and women) like to watch people masturbate. I know there are also people who like to watch a couple fuck. I love this place!
I would love to Watch live Porn but, not just masterbation or fake acting.
and yes, it would work me up to join in or see someone else.

CG
roaringfork's Avatar
I've read somewhere that guys who like to watch solo action are neurotic, but whoever wrote that didn't deign to explicate the assertion. Maybe it goes something like this: I'm still subconsciously identified with my mom, so when I watch the chick playing with herself, it's like I'm doing the same. Plus if I touched her, I'd get in trouble with Dad for doing his job, which a worthless mama's boy like me could never do as well as he (or she) could anyway.

I personally can't stand to look at mainstream porn, or anything else involving another guy's hairy sweaty ass, as Sam Kinison would put it. I recognize, though, that this is usually regarded as a sign of the same insecurity.
LaStang's Avatar
i like to watch a lady masturbate during breaktime for me
The whole watching a woman masterbate is pretty great, not joining in or beating yourself, dont get that at all. I am afraid I would have to hang it in her face, be worshipping her breasts or at least stroking her passionately somewhere, to each his own though, what works for one will not the next. I am still lusting over Reese Foster, one of these days Hun,
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I personally can't stand to look at mainstream porn, or anything else involving another guy's hairy sweaty ass, as Sam Kinison would put it. ... Originally Posted by roaringfork
A. Kinison died at 38. Maybe this is why.
B. Your not SUPPOSED to watch the hairy, sweaty-ass guy when you watch porn.

TheWanderer's Avatar
B. Your not SUPPOSED to watch the hairy, sweaty-ass guy when you watch porn.

Originally Posted by JDNorthface
Just stop watching Ron Jeremy movies.
Just stop watching Ron Jeremy movies. Originally Posted by TheWanderer
Love mutual masterbation...but I like to occasionally reach over and get some of the lady's wetness to use for lube on my cock.
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I want to preface this post by saying that I'm asking the following question out of curiosity and not judgement. With that said, I recently met with a provider who mentioned that a large number of her clients pay serious cash to watch her masturbate, and that's it. They refuse to engage in any other act nor do they want to be touched. She mentioned for an hour, they sit in their respective corner and watch. They themselves do not masturbate...they just observe. I'm trying to understand the logic...maybe they are getting warmed up to see someone else?

Have any providers experienced this before? Would you be comfortable with this type of request? Originally Posted by Alien_Saint
wrt the bolded text - perhaps she is REALLY good at masturbating and they get off on watching her do so. did she say if the clients have a wet spot in their crotch when they leave? also, would assume male clients. how about female clients??

if you ever understand why someone wants to do that, then write it up for the sexual psychology journals!

it may be different but it's not weird, at least not in my book.
there are so many possibilities in this sub-culture that i am no longer surprised by them.


btw, have you ever watched her masturbate? whether or not she touched you or your masturbated yourself?
Perhaps married men who look at this as not cheating, but allows them to have their own little fantasies when they go home to wifey.

We are a strange lot here, and nothing some other guy does at this point truly surprises me, May disgust me, but the surprise is all gone.