Are Some Providers Ad’s looking a little plain, not well thought out, & Kind of Dull?

Are Some Providers Ad’s looking a little plain, not well thought out, & Kind of Dull?

What do ya’ll think of an Ad like this? (Turn music speakers on/off)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ZqZP53YzkI&feature=related

This might be something I might do later as a side hobby if there is enough interest from the ladies who don’t have enough time, newbie, or don’t know how to put something like this together for themselves. I do have an interest in designing and putting stuff like this together. Personally, I think OFF would be a better candidate for the job. Of course, I know the hobbyists would rather have it Right click friendly so we can copy the pictures and have a button to turn sound on/off. As a hobbyist, I think this is much more enjoyable of an Ad and gets my attention. What do you think Ladies???

Also, as a side note: IMHO, Khloe Cruise has a very Elegant, Professional, and well thought out website. (Very nice job and a Pleasure to read pretty lady)
http://www.khloecruise.com

Looking forward to hearing the opinions of BOTH Providers and Hobbyists,

CG
I think we already have some guys who like to do that for the ladies, one of them is a total Control Freak. I don't know that you will have a lot of takers, since it's been proven that it does not work to have a hobbyist 'help' with our business.

In all reality, most of the guys don't read 'em fully. They just skip down to the rates and location. I know this because in prior ads, I put everything they could ever want to know in there, and yet I am still asked questions that could easily be answered if they had read one word of what was in the ad.

I posted one last night that was dull, because I didn't feel like being very creative (there's enough of that in my posts, anyway) for nothing, and in my experience, it doesn't really make a difference. Pics, rates, location, reviews. That's all they really care about seeing for the most part. You are one of the exceptions.
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  • Magen
  • 06-05-2010, 03:42 PM
i have to agree with dannie. I dont find it good to mix the two either! Thats alot of work to put into an ad and like she said guys dont pay enough attention to it any ways! I have done the same... listed everything you could want to know on an ad and still get the same questions so why spend alot of time making it all pretty and what not for nothing!
Thanks for sharing, CopierGuy.... This belongs in Business Services for Providers.... So, Off it goes....
In my experience with webpages, NO ONE reads them! So I keep mine VERY simple and easy to naviagate without lots of distracting optinons others use.

As the ladies have said before, pics, rates, location and some dont even bother to read that! I have a page of FAQs on my my site and not a day goes by that I dont get at least one email asking me a question thats clearly typed out on my page.

Hell, I'm willing to bet that if everything was put on one page with contact info at the bottom, SOMEONE would scroll down til they found it and ask questions to everything answered above it!

http://bellaeroticimagery.tripod.com
BINGO!!

Most men don't care about all that extraneous "fluff" which attempts to convey mood and a bit of the lady's personality in an ad/website. They generally care about pictures, rates and location. That's pretty much IT.

The less clicks they all have to go through to get this information, the better.

I design websites for providers, and I have polled MANY clients on what they like in sites, and seriously, like 95% of them say they want sites to be simpler, smaller and more direct.
I think we all agree that good pictures are #1 when exposing a woman's desirability. Aesthetics are important because they add dimension to the image. This is the hidden ingredient when done right. But they are secondary. What really counts is how her sensuality provokes the viewer into wanting to make contact with her. When I photograph, always in the back of my mind is how can I exude her sensuality in its most natural form and make her images stand out from the rest.

After clients receives their photographs, I find that they often seek the opinions of their male friends. I work with a male assistant for this very reason. Some ladies feel that they can 'sex it up' when a man's in the room. Being a female photographer adds balance to that mood and an important element of assurance. The mood of a shoot is critical in allowing a woman to release herself.

When a woman has good pictures, her phone rings more.
It all comes down to what type of clientele you are wanting to attract consistently and caring about what you are doing.

Of course there are some guys who will breeze right through and go straight for rates / photos and as Meeshee said "good pictures are #1 when exposing a woman's desirability". That does make the world of difference in Advertising and Websites, but also presenting yourself in a professional manner and showing you are putting something more into your business and yourself counts for a lot in most guys eyes even if they don't read everything on your website or ad, you can still count on the fact that they take notice to a lady who puts some effort into having something creative as opposed to a simple Craigslist type of Ad with photos taken in the motel bathroom mirror.

It all comes down to what type of clientele you are wanting to attract consistently and caring about what you are doing.

As a Website Designer for many years now working with Escorts. I receive emails from Women and Men all the time complimenting on my website and Ad designs so I do know that people take notice. I can say without a doubt that it really depends on what the lady is trying to accomplish and if she is willing to put effort into making that happen.

As for hobbyist doing work for ladies. I have to say I have yet to see that work out in a good way long term and I believe it is a bad idea to mix the two. Unless you are saying you are wanting to do this for ladies you will not be meeting or have any type of client / escort relationship with? In which case I say go for it, but don't think for a minute it is easy and unless you really have the ladies best interest in mind when doing work for her then don't do it! You are providing a service like any other and should always do the best you can for your client.

Good Luck
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Keep the website simple and easy to navigate through, have classy pictures that are frequently updated and let me know how much. That's pretty much it. Guys are very visual people, so when we are looking for our next adventure....we look at the pictures. Pictures, pictures pictures. Then the price to see if we can afford the adventure. I'll make my decision in less than 60 seconds. Literally. What I don't like about some of the websites: Music and gross pictures. Also, thumb nails that make no sense are also annoying. Keep the catagories simple. I'm shopping. I'm not in the mood to be confused. Girls update your pictures often and frequently. My mood and taste changes often. I may not like what your wearing or how you looked today. But, next month after you've cut your hair and put on that sun dress. My mouth may hit the ground and I may decide to partake. Simple is best. Lets get to the point. If if don't work....then I'm gonna move on.
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I agree with maybe making a video (of yourself) but that was a little much lol. Reminds me of a 80's softcore porno.
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ive always heard guys say they HATE the ads that when they open them up music starts playing and stuff because they are.... 1. at work and shouldnt be searching for a lunch break play-toy. 2. at home with SO in the other room.... sooo i just keep it simple. just include all the info and some color and pix.... and i still get asked questions that are clearly stated a few times on the page lol!
Keep the website simple and easy to navigate through, have classy pictures that are frequently updated and let me know how much. That's pretty much it. Guys are very visual people, so when we are looking for our next adventure....we look at the pictures. Pictures, pictures pictures. Then the price to see if we can afford the adventure. I'll make my decision in less than 60 seconds. Literally. What I don't like about some of the websites: Music and gross pictures. Also, thumb nails that make no sense are also annoying. Keep the catagories simple. I'm shopping. I'm not in the mood to be confused. Girls update your pictures often and frequently. My mood and taste changes often. I may not like what your wearing or how you looked today. But, next month after you've cut your hair and put on that sun dress. My mouth may hit the ground and I may decide to partake. Simple is best. Lets get to the point. If if don't work....then I'm gonna move on. Originally Posted by Mr Clever
I have to say: this pretty much sums up this entire thread. Kudos.