Just to get a general consensus will be from both providers and fella's
You've taken an interest in a provider... it's the first time you make their acquaintance... what do you take with you, besides the obvious.
I thought that at least one would mention flowers or at least A rose something along the lines of Awww, how sweet... Originally Posted by technicallygeekAlthough it's never necessary to bring a little token for a first visit (or second, etc.), I've have often received a nice orchid plant, flowers, some beautiful pens for my pen collection, books, new toys, a very nice leather flogger and a bunch of different types of exotic foods and cheeses, stuff like that.