I don't get to see a lot of ladies, especially since I've been unemployed, but there's one thing that I've wondered about for some time, and never asked.
Ladies, do you care one way or the other how a guy is dressed when he knocks on your door? Can that affect your session in one way or the other?
I understand that you like a gentleman to be clean, and well groomed when he comes to you, but what is acceptable attire? I've heard recommendations that he wear business attire, maybe even casual business attire, at the very least, but how important is that to you, and does it have any effect on the session to come?
I guess the main reason I ask is that I typically don't show up in business attire. I'm a guy that wears a lot of shorts (not cut-offs) almost year-round since we are where we are and rarely have anything that approaches winter weather. Sometimes I'm wearing a t-shirt, and other times a knit shirt/polo shirt. My clothes are always clean and never disheveled and I never go to see a lady unless I've showered, shaved and brushed - usually immediately before heading out the door. If the weather is a little cooler, I'm likely to be wearing jeans.
The main reason I do this, especially lately, is because that's how I'm most comfortable, and if I leave the house dressed otherwise, questions will most certainly be raised. Besides that, since I've been unemployed for quite some time, it's not likely that I would show up in slacks and a sport shirt, or coat and tie, as if I was coming from work.
In all honesty, I'm not sure I'd change my ways, but I really would like to know what you're thinking when someone dressed as I do shows up.