Why is scheduling so hard???

Ok, hobbying is not a full-time thing for me, but after neing in a relationship, I am back in the game. I have some interesting experiences and maybe I have very lucky. So I am wandering what the hell happened.

I have tried booking with at least 3 girls and I have references including a couple pornstars and a few local ladies, but I cannot seem to get anyone booked.

Is anyone else having trouble???

Because being arrested sucks. Not saying you are LE, but it is difficult at the last minute. Unless you have a few favorites, it takes time. Many of these women have other jobs, full schedules, children and even an SO. Be patient my friend as in no time it will simply take a text message. Everytime I want to see a new girl I have never seen I run into what you are dealing with. As soon as I see them, it is so easy to schedule.

Perhaps you are trying to schedule with the wrong ones

Because being arrested sucks. Not saying you are LE, but it is difficult at the last minute. Unless you have a few favorites, it takes time. Many of these women have other jobs, full schedules, children and even an SO. Be patient my friend as in no time it will simply take a text message. Everytime I want to see a new girl I have never seen I run into what you are dealing with. As soon as I see them, it is so easy to schedule. Originally Posted by Nitwitboy

Thank you! It does take time to be able to see quality companionship. Just a tip: We don't love P411 for nothing

Try joining P411 - that will take care of employment screening and allow you to accumulate "OKs" from providers. You said you are getting "back in the game" after an absence. If your references are old, they are not worth much any more.

+1 on P411. Join up and your luck will improve.

+1 on P411. Join up and your luck will improve. Originally Posted by Prolongus

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I have tried booking with at least 3 girls and I have references including a couple pornstars and a few local ladies, but I cannot seem to get anyone booked.

Is anyone else having trouble??? Originally Posted by Maverick7

well, how much in advance of your time slot have you been attempting to book - hours, days, weeks? in my experience, the longer lead time i give, the higher the probability of getting an appt.

sometimes, i can get an appt booked just a few hrs ahead of time, but generally i start the process 1, 2, even 3 weeks ahead of time. i am only able to play certain days and times, so i start early cos i dont want to wait until it's a day or two ahead of time.

also, are the women not responding to your requests, responding w/ "sorry, i'm busy" or "sorry, you dont have the refs.", or something else?

without more info, there could be a gazillion reasons why you arent able to book.

if you want more specific ideas and suggestions, pls provide some more info.

Scheduling hard? With the women I've contacted here I've never had a problem (actually been quite easy to be honest)

Gotta agree with pm - without specifics about where you're hitting a dead end it could be a multitude of reasons.

Even with P411 it is a pain in the ass. I always get "OKs" fairly easy, but I have never been able to book using P411. You send a request and never hear back. Yeah, yeah, yeah - I know there are exceptions before all the ladies say "try me" but the fact remains I have never had good luck using P411 to book an appt as it is a 1st cousin to booking by email. Great for references, great for "OK's", etc. They just never respond.

For the record before Gina jumps me, it is NOT the site, it is the providers that do not respond.

I guess this is where I go about it differently now.

When I was only on P411 I'd schedule only through P411. Never to this day used the "request an appt" form tho that I can think of - always just a message to verify screening, availability, etc that turned into an appt. Some never responded so I moved on.

Now that I'm here, I PM. A lot of the time I get "send me your P411" - which I do through P411, but the scheduling has been through PM here. To date that hasn't failed if the PM is answered. Not that I've scheduled yet with all I've talked to, but I've at least cleared up the screening for when I'm ready.

I love p411 especially for same day appointments, I wish more fellows used it.
I'm one of those that answer inquiries straight away though.

Good luck with that!

I don't know if it's the full moon or what but I have been CRAZY CRAZY busy lately! I am booked through the rest of the week unless I get a cancellation.

I REALLY hate turning appointments away but I can usually make arrangements with one or two days notice.

I can't imagine not answering messages, texts, etc. I always try to get to them as quickly as I can.

Keep on trying darlin'...it will happen. If you get a desire to drive to Fort Worth, I have plenty of availability on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday next week but I am going to Austin Thursday morning for the weekend.

Good luck to you either way!

Well, I don't know WTF is... I had a girl for a long time and we actually got too "used" to each other. Still great friends and meet up every once in awhile for some plutonic fun.

I used PC before and it was awesome, but that is gone now. The girl I saw at PC is at one of the jack shacks. You don't have to be an all the timer to know what happened to some of the better fun houses in the warehouse districts. She tried to talk me into going into there but I just was not going to take the chance and she got pissed about that. That's kind of like me getting pissed because a girl wants to screen me.

I have never had to got the P411 route, but I may have to. It f'n sucks that I have seen MAJOR porn stars and was shown much more professionalism. It was also much, much easier to get verified.

I will say Addison Amy is super nice and so is DFWGigi..

Is it the full moon or the SuperBowl that is making people crazy??

In response to a previous post, I have never requested a "same day" appointment. I like to schedule things in advance.

I have had to "shotgun" to get an appointment. I basically provided four girls with 2 references a piece. One said she verified me, but I know the reference and she never called. The others have never called either.

It's completely disappointing. This is supposed to be a fantasy and not Match.com.