Respecting time

I’m fairly new to the hobby and have a question...

I know a lot of ladies request that guys respect the time they have paid for. My question is this... how do you know when your time is up? Almost all of the ladies I have seen don’t have a clock so how’s a guy to know when the hour (or whatever time) is up? I know for myself I have gotten out to my vehicle and had times when I was like “damn, I had ten more minutes” and times when i was like “shoot I was in there for an hour and half” and feel I have taken advantage.

Also as an additional question... does the clock start when I walk in the door or when the “activities” begin?

Again I’m just trying to be respectful of the ladies here... any thoughts would be appreciated!

You could wear a watch, but I don't like to do that. You get a pretty good idea of the time with practice.

For me it's really more about quality time than getting every minute's worth of the gal's time. If I leave early, I don't think of it as time/money lost, I think of it as goodwill, especially if it's someone I might want to see again. And if not, the gals will talk amongst themselves, so it's still goodwill.

Occasionally, one of the lower-volume gals might be happy for you to stay a little longer and chat if she likes you and doesn't have anything else lined up. More often, the gal will make a subtle hint, like asking if you need a shower before you go.

She may not come right out and tell you that your time is up, at least not in so many words. There's kind of a stigma to being a so-called "clock-watcher" among the guys in the hobby, but just because there's no clock doesn't mean she's not watching it.

So maybe just play it by ear and pay attention to the subtext. If you treat her right, observe the basic laws of good hygiene, and pay attention, she'll find a way of letting you know when it's time to go, and she'll probably be very tactful about it because she wants your repeat business.

Just don't be that guy who can't take a hint, and you'll do fine.

To Dev's point about watches, my last tryst I kept my Samsung watch on just so I'm aware of the time and I'm always on call due to my occupation.

A lot of girls use their phones or set up playlists that last 30, 60, 90, 120, etc and certain songs let's them know they are at x amount.

I’m usually good about “taking the hint” and i just don’t want to be that guy that has the stigma of not being respectful. I’m always aware of good hygiene and try to be a guy that gets a repeat if I enjoy my time.

I agree too that it’s more about good quality than just getting the time so you do make a good point there.

Agent:
I didn’t think about the playlist... that’s a good idea though...

It's awesome that you're asking questions and being considerate.

ive always kept a sundial in my room, just incase the power goes out.
always handy for those late night appts.

Time begins when you come to my door, HOWEVER... guys that are funny, respectful, on time, great manners, chemistry, wonderful hygiene, smart and great conversationist .... I tend to not be a clock watcher.

Ymmv

^^^What she said ^^^^

Respecting time should be a two-way street.

If a hobbyist schedules and pays for a one-hour session, he should get a full session. Some ladies now advertise that guys will be done after first pop, and no MSOG unless they pay for second session.

I think that is a slippery slope and we should instead focus on having 50 full mins of BCD fun (for a one hour session). Then, a quick shower and out the door with a smile. Giving the next guy walking up the sidewalk a "High Five" is optional.

One Mongers opinion. I always make sure my lady friends get multiples and they strive to provide the same for me. Two-way street, etc. Respecting time is always important.

Wearing a watch helps. It might take awhile to get the feel of the person and then get the business part out the way ya know. Then start the time. Right like KBF said ymmv.