Contact etiquette

I tried contacting a provider and after seeing some recent reviews I thought to ask if her location was a residence or safe hotel. She seemed to take great offence to the question.
Was I out of line or is there a better way to inquire?

A lot of them are picky. as long as you don't inquire about their service I don't feel too much is out of bounds. We are the customer and there are a lot to choose from.. don't be offended and just move on to the next if you have to.

I ask that same question often. I don't think it's out of line at all. If they get an attitude over that. IMHO they are not worth seeing

To some of them that seems like "location collecting". Personally I have no problem going through the process and deciding against a meet once I have the location. They are some places around town I just won't go.

Yeah that seems weird to get upset about. As a provider, there are places I won't go. I'm sure the same can be said for her. I'd say red flag!!!

I really do not want to sound boastful by asking if an expensive vehicle will draw attention at an inexpensive hotel. Should that really concern me or am I just being paranoid?

I doubt it would get noticed unless it's parked in a mostly empty lot.

it's your money, ask whatever questions you need to figure out how you want to spend it.

the good providers know that.