Solid references

I need at least 2 solid references...to see some friends. But the references i have now aren't responding. I just don't understand why. I always ask if its ok to use them as a reference, they always say sure. Then when I actually used them... it's crickets...not sure where the miscommunication is occurring, but yeah. Anyone want to help prefer females can't believe I have to say that lol
References are tough in this town, especially starting out.

I mean I would be up for just a no-activity meet with a provider to get a reference. If the rate is right both parties win and the community win. Guy gets an entry point at a reasonable price and the gal gets easy money without having to actually do anything besides some kind of LE check. More guys in community means more business for all the girls