youth vs maturity

I am not interested in ladies under 30, upper limits, prefer they do not need a walker or incontinence diapers!

Either one but I search for confidence and an ability to be very comfortable with each other.

Experience and guile will always overcome youth and enthusiasm.

Maturity is the winner every time. Maturity, is not always measured by the number of birthdays which she has passed. I have met young ladies who were very mature and a few older ones who were very imature.

I agree with Bull149 completely.

Agreed! It has more to do with upbringing, exposure to life's lessons, wisdom, and some level of education and professionalism rather than age. I have had so many guys claim to never see women under 30, and gave me a solid 10 rating. It just depends on the person and the chemistry. I find men from 30-45 are the ones I am most comfortable with on extended dates. Shorter dates I can get along with just about anyone lol.

Exactly ... age is just a number.

Mature i think makes for a better session(30-40) they are so much more in tune with their bodies and what really works for both parties.

i agree with sox....when i think back to how I did things in my 20's and how I do it now...a major difference...I am sure there are younger ladies age wise that are more mature mentally and that's what makes the difference...the midset

Mature i think makes for a better session(30-40) they are so much more in tune with their bodies and what really works for both parties. Originally Posted by soxfan

Most of the highest marks I've given ladies over the years have been those in their 30's and early 40's. Very few under that age have been winners ( I'm sure London is the exception )

Mature ladies know all the tricks and are usually more open to my needs.

This could stem from my experience while in my 20's when I was passed around by a clique of 30-40 year old housewives who used me relentlessly, LMAO

We lie about our age lol. I will be 30 in a year and a half lmao!

The traits are not mutually exclusive.

In general, I see older providers -- sometimes older than me. That's because they are comfortable with themselves, don't have anything to prove, and can relate to me better. When I was in my early 20's I generally prefered women in the 35-45 age group simply because I could relate to them better than to my contemporaries. When I was in my late 20's, most of my friends were nearing retirement.

HOWEVER -- the traits that I typically see in older providers are not exclusively possessed by them. Sometimes they are possessed by younger ladies and when that happens, I'll see a younger lady.

There is, btw, a downside to providers universally lying about their ages.

When a lady whose profile says she is 25 posts about how her oldest client has been with her for 12 years, some of us with teen daughters get a little queasy. (*chuckle*)

Furthermore, for the longest time I would set a minimum age of 35 in my search profiles, thereby excluding lots of 35-45 year old ladies who were claiming to be 28-34.

So when ladies lie about their ages, they are taking some calculated risks.

I agree, age is just a number, I'm in my 20's and have had several clients tell me they were surprised by how intelligent and mature I was for my age, I always do clean up service etc, I actually enjoy sex, I don't do drugs or smoke, and I have PLENTY of experience .....

So all I'm saying to the gents is that not all of us women under 30 are so bad

just my .02

Older doesn't always mean "Mature".. Just FYI. lol!

what differences do you find between a young provider and a more mature one...and which do you prefer and why or it doesn't matter? Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

Irish, I have always been attracted to the more mature ladies. My experiences have proven that ladies similar to my age are more appealing to me. There are lower chances of drama. I would prefer speaking to someone that has the similar views and memories that I have shared. However, one experience that I have had with a younger individual of 24, proved to be a quality relationship. She may have been my ATF, but she moved on and is completing her Master's degree. She was more mature than similar people of her age.

When searching, I generally will not choose providers younger than 35, but this could change if they have been given outstanding reviews. So, mature ladies, keep up the excellent work. There are many of us out there that want to share your experience.

Boonie

I agree, age is just a number, I'm in my 20's and have had several clients tell me they were surprised by how intelligent and mature I was for my age, I always do clean up service etc, I actually enjoy sex, I don't do drugs or smoke, and I have PLENTY of experience .....

So all I'm saying to the gents is that not all of us women under 30 are so bad

just my .02 Originally Posted by Valerie

Ditto!