Are you not breaking the law being a john and paying hookers for sex? That is why we have nicknames and hobby phones because we are doing something that is illegal, not only in the law books, but also in the eyes of God, fucking around on your wife with whores (if you are married), as well as any other friend/family member you do not want knowing this part of your life. If you fail to take the precautions necessary so that when, not if something like this happens, it is 100% your fault. Yes, it hurts others as a result, and they do not deserve it as they were not a part of it, nice ASSumption there, but the responsibility of that hurting goes on you for thinking someone else, namely an internet site, is going to protect your privacy. It is never OK, but when it happens, make sure your bases are covered so the the damage is at its minimalist, if any, and providing RW info is not covering those bases.
You can out me all you want, (wouldn't advise it tho since it is against the guidelines). I do not have a wife, kids or family in town, and my friends know I am on Eccie as well as who I am, but if someone I knew personally did not know about me on Eccie, then doing a search of my handle would not fall back on anything in my personal life (real name, real world phone #, ect.).
I was fully on topic, check out my first post......you deserve what you get, it had a double meaning, one being the % of real women on the site and talking to robots probably 90% of the time. I thought you of all people who are known for reading in between the lines of a post would have caught that, but, maybe it's depending upon what you want to see that matters. Only you, OBSG, can be an OP and hijack your own thread!