How often does this come up?

KitchenAid's Avatar
I've wondered how often the subject of taking pictures during a session comes up. I can tell you that I have requested that of ladies in the past. Some said yes, some said no. For me it's not a deal breaker/maker either way. However, for me (when available) it brings an extra level of eroticism. Sort of like making porn but not really. The odd thing is that I never end up keeping any of them. I'll hold on to them for a week or two afterward then usually end up deleting them. I guess it's because it really is more about the actual picture taking at the time.

The last time I was able to hobby, I was out of town on a business trip. I found a beautiful lady through ASPD at the time that was fine with it. She was amazing! So much so, I saw her two nights in a row before coming back. We must have taken over 60 pictures spanning both sessions. I sent several back to her because she wanted to keep copies of some of them. Staying true to my form (or fetish), I have since deleted them too.

My question here is for both the ladies and the gentlemen. How often do you get asked or do you ask if you can take pics.

For the gentlemen: What's your motivation for wanting to do it?

For the ladies: Do you allow/dissallow and why?

Just some discussion, I've wondered about. I apologize is this has been discussed before. I've only scratched the surface on reading threads.

Thanks all,
Iaintliein's Avatar
I've asked a few ladies to pose for me, but not during a session (although, I've had sessions with all of the one's I've photographed). My motivation is simple, photography has been a serious hobby for me for decades. The problem is finding the "private time" to do it and the time and effort it takes to set up lights etc. With the economy the way it is, photography is the only "hobby" I can really afford.

Hotlips Hoolihan and Lindsey Lacey use some of the photos for adds, Pleasure09 doesn't use the headshot I did of her for ads probably because I did a fair bit of post processing on it to give it more of an "artsy" look. It's almost as much fun as the session. . . and it lasts much longer!
Regards,
Hole-In-One's Avatar
I've had it suggested by one of the ladies that we take pictures during a session. She doesn't have a camera and I keep forgetting mine.
pmdelites's Avatar
in a word - mammories, er, memories!!!

generally, i've only taken photos after i've known the woman for a while, we click, and she is comfortable w/ my doing so. a few times, i've done so after a few encounters, but again, we've clicked and they were comfortable w/ my doing so.

it's not something i fret about if she declines.
for me, it doesnt really add to the session - in order to capture decent photos, i really have to focus on the photograph [no pun intended] instead of our playing. plus, lube is not good for a camera body or viewfinder :^)

but the memories of what we did lasts for a long time, even if they go into the archive.
KitchenAid's Avatar
I completely understand. I managed to find one of my favorite shots on an old flash drive. It's my AV now. That is what I'm speaking of when I get to take pics. Obviously it was editted down from the entire shot, but trust me, it was a good shoot for both of us!
I have allowed this with certain (repeat) clients. I had to feel comfortable the photographer would not post on the internet (or otherwise share), and I also received copies. It worked great for both of us.
KitchenAid's Avatar
Sorry, I was informed that I had to change my avatar. No problem, I understand why, just didn't want you all to think I was trying to pass off my new avatar as one of my pics.
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Ive had atleast 4 men I can remeber that has asked me to let him video tape me.
One client that had never asked before pulled out a camera while during a session. I wouldn't have mind had he asked but assuming he's allowed to totally ruined the session.
Almost any phone will take a decent "memory" shot, but not HD quality of course. PDA phones are getting better all the time. I keep mine handy and ask if it's ok. Usually they say ok but no face shot. I tell them they can view each pic and delete it if they don't like it. Careful with the phone and don't accidentally dial the SO in the heat of the moment as I once did. I email myself all the pics so I don't have to store them on my hard drive or other media.
I have allowed this with certain (repeat) clients. I had to feel comfortable the photographer would not post on the internet (or otherwise share), and I also received copies. It worked great for both of us. Originally Posted by rn_sweetie
You are cute. I will be in touch!!

BTW....fetishes...gotta have them!!
Sigh...you guys are a divorce attorney's wet dream! Not only will you have pics (I pray for a video too!) of your self with another woman (single guys can stop reading here) but with a (as the steamed wifey might say) hooker...prostitute...!! That'll be a MINIMUM of half of everything you own, fuck the prenup too (funny how compromising pics like that can end up on your company shared drive or, perhaps on the IPhone of your boss!). Wives are the best clients. They want their pound of flesh, plus an extra ounce or two, and her divorce attorney is usually the very first one she wants to fuck (afterall, it's her attorney that's just fininshed bending financially-castrated hubby over the hood of his (excuse me, HER) Mercedes (don't worry bud..you can drive the Dodge Caravan for the next 4 years!) and giving it to him. Pics and vids are a BAD idea..unless you're a divorce attorney!
Sigh...you guys are a divorce attorney's wet dream! Not only will you have pics (I pray for a video too!) of your self with another woman (single guys can stop reading here) but with a (as the steamed wifey might say) hooker...prostitute...!! That'll be a MINIMUM of half of everything you own, fuck the prenup too (funny how compromising pics like that can end up on your company shared drive or, perhaps on the IPhone of your boss!). Originally Posted by txcwby6
+1

Pics and/or video not going to happen with me!
Hayden Hightower's Avatar
Sure, I'll let you take pics/video....but expect several pages of paperwork, and a fee for rights to the content....
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  • S-Man
  • 09-22-2010, 03:13 PM
Of course, some guys don't let the girl know...
Physical Description: About 5'1. Tight body smells sweet. Taste sweeter! I got the bikini pic from her in a text...and the others were right after a CG session. I took them on my phone when she thought I was checking my messages! WOOHOO! SPRINT EVO 4G!! Originally Posted by blackgreenlantern
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=102952
Hayden Hightower's Avatar
What a douche lord.....I pray no guy ever has the balls to do something like this.....and for the douche lord supremes that actually attempt to sell pics/video without a model release, they can expect to spend some time in "time out" aka JAIL....Selling or distributing pornographic material without the consent and signed release of content by the model is a very serious criminal offense.. HONEY, I would contact your attorney asap