I'm sure the there is a better answer some where in the many pages on this site. I am not new to the hobby but I am kinda new to using these sites so in a lot of cases I was being being treated like a newbie. However with the advice of some of the members on here and the providers I had it figured it out in no time. Here is my advice. Join P411 find the ladies that are nebie friendly see them 1st. Next write some reviews about your experience with them on eccie and ask for Ok's on P411. Oh and I almost forgot be a gentleman, be clean and be safe.
The newb cannot even figure out how to get started. Taint would only make the newbtard more confused. Sort of ironic since taint is the key to understanding ...